如何为生活中的“第一次”做准备
<p>所有事情的第一次总是最让人激动。不管你是新工作的第一天上班还是第一次约会，你总是能记得这些“第一次”。不仅仅因为这些第一次承载着许多兴奋，还出于对一些事情的担忧。你或许会担心自己能否有个好的表现，或者其他人在你表现不好的时候会怎样看你。为了不让自己陷入那样的担忧之中，我们如何能够让第一次变得激动人心？</p><p>以下几个步骤可以让你更好地应对新环境，不再感觉到焦虑。</p><p>1. <span word="Ditch">Ditch</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="perfection">perfection</span> 放弃完美</p><p><span word="On">On</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="rare">rare</span> <span word="occasions">occasions</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="manage">manage</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="perfectly">perfectly</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ditch">ditch</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="notion">notion</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="perfection">perfection</span>。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="drove">drove</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="car">car</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="traffic">traffic</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="driver">driver</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="license">license</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="nervous">nervous</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="overwhelmed">overwhelmed</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="traffic">traffic</span> — <span word="my">my</span> <span word="driving">driving</span> <span word="style">style</span> <span word="showed">showed</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="confident">confident</span> <span word="driver">driver</span>. <span word="Now">Now</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="experienced">experienced</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="driver">driver</span>. <span word="Although">Although</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="consider">consider</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span> <span word="one">one</span>, <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="confident">confident</span> <span word="behind">behind</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wheel">wheel</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="started">started</span>。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="general">general</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="useless">useless</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="strive">strive</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="perfection">perfection</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="setting">setting</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bar">bar</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="level">level</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="set">set</span>。</p><p><span word="Also">Also</span>, <span word="perfection">perfection</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="procrastinate">procrastinate</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="waste">waste</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="pursue">pursue</span> <span word="excellence">excellence</span> <span word="instead">instead</span>。</p>
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