人际交往应把握好的十条建议
<p><span word="Want">Want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="build">build</span> <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>? <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="commit">commit</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="following">following</span> 10 <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="disrupt">disrupt</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>:</p><p>你想建立积极的人际关系吗？那么确保不要做一下十件会毁灭关系的事情。</p><p>1. <span word="Giving">Giving</span> <span word="hurtful">hurtful</span> <span word="comments">comments</span>. <span word="Are">Are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="hurting">hurting</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="tact">tact</span>? <span word="You">You</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="helpful">helpful</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="intentions">intentions</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="party">party</span> <span word="instead">instead</span>. <span word="Put">Put</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="others">others</span>'<span word="shoes">shoes</span> <span word="first">first</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="comment">comment</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="appreciate">appreciate</span> <span word="hearing">hearing</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="perhaps">perhaps</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="appreciate">appreciate</span> <span word="either">either</span>.</p><p>1. 给伤害性的评论。你曾经因为缺乏机智而伤害过他人吗？你可能觉得你是在帮别人，但是你可能伤害别人。首先，替别人想想。如果你不愿意听到那个评论，那么对于别人而言，可能也不愿意。</p><p>2. <span word="Giving">Giving</span> <span word="solutions">solutions</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="ear">ear</span>. <span word="Probably">Probably</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="understatement">understatement</span>: <span word="A">A</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="times">times</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="ear">ear</span>. <span word="Deep">Deep</span> <span word="down">down</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="solutions">solutions</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="facing">facing</span> – <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="frustrations">frustrations</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="day">day</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="butt">butt</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="suggestions">suggestions</span> <span word="whenever">whenever</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="shared">shared</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="frustrations">frustrations</span>. <span word="Our">Our</span> <span word="conversations">conversations</span> <span word="became">became</span> <span word="stifling">stifling</span> – <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="stopped">stopped</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="altogether">altogether</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="refuge">refuge</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span>. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="conscious">conscious</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="party">party</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="for">for</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="adjust">adjust</span> <span word="accordingly">accordingly</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fit">fit</span> <span word="that">that</span>.</p>
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