你后悔结婚吗？为什么？
<p><span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="regret">regret</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="why">why</span>?</p><p>你的婚姻让你后悔吗？为什么？</p><p>获得38.8<span word="k">k</span>好评的回答@<span word="Jennifer">Jennifer</span> <span word="Lynn">Lynn</span>:</p><p><span word="Yes">Yes</span>, <span word="my">my</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="disaster">disaster</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="arranged">arranged</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="clues">clues</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="m">m</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="rest">rest</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="with">with</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="lies">lies</span>, <span word="selfishness">selfishness</span>, <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="greediness">greediness</span> <span word="surfaced">surfaced</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="roof">roof</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="separated">separated</span> <span word="soon">soon</span> <span word="after">after</span>.</p><p>后悔。我的第一次婚姻就是一场灾难，其实是父母安排的，我也不清楚自己的余生要和什么样的人一起度过。当他的谎言、自私、缺乏爱和贪婪显露无疑的时候，我就很难和他共处一室了。我们后来很快就离婚了。</p><p><span word="Later">Later</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="realized">realized</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="mistake">mistake</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p><p>后来我意识到了自己的错误，我愿意分享给你。</p><p><span word="Oftentimes">Oftentimes</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="figure">figure</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="need">need</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="researching">researching</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span> <span word="car">car</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="short">short</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="than">than</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="researching">researching</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="needs">needs</span>, <span word="wants">wants</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="goals">goals</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lifetime">lifetime</span>. <span word="Therefore">Therefore</span>, <span word="step">step</span> 1 <span word="is">is</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="discovery">discovery</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="expected">expected</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="backfire">backfire</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="soon">soon</span>.</p><p>人们经常还没弄清楚自己是谁、自己想要什么就开始恋爱。他们可能会花更多时间研究最适合他们的车，而车只会用很短一段时间，却不会花那么多时间研究自己完美恋爱中的需求、渴望和目标，而恋爱却是他们想要持续一辈子的。因此，第一步就是自我发现。如果你只是遵从别人的期待谈恋爱的话，你很快就会自食其果。</p>
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