这些坏习惯会破坏你们的感情
<p><span word="Bad">Bad</span> <span word="habits">habits</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="affect">affect</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span></p><p>这些坏习惯会破坏你们的感情</p><p><span word="Trying">Trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="improve">improve</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span></p><p>试图提升另一半</p><p><span word="First">First</span>, <span word="let">let</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="worst">worst</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="habits">habits</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>. “<span word="The">The</span> <span word="idea">idea</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="improve">improve</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="puts">puts</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> '<span word="superior">superior</span>' <span word="role">role</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="skews">skews</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="power">power</span> <span word="balance">balance</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>,” <span word="says">says</span> <span word="Geoff">Geoff</span> <span word="Lamb">Lamb</span>, <span word="psychotherapist">psychotherapist</span>. “<span word="This">This</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="partners">partners</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="feedback">feedback</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>.”</p><p>首先，我们先聊聊谈恋爱最糟糕的习惯之一。“提升另一半的想法会让你觉得自己很有‘优越感’，从而破坏恋情的力量平衡，”心理治疗师杰夫·兰姆（<span word="Geoff">Geoff</span> <span word="Lamb">Lamb</span>）说道。“但这并不表示，一方不能给另一半意见；也不能表示一方不可以向另一方表达希望从对方身上获得什么。”</p><p><span word="Bickering">Bickering</span> <span word="via">via</span> <span word="text">text</span> <span word="messages">messages</span></p><p>发短信吵架</p><p><span word="Having">Having</span> <span word="serious">serious</span> <span word="conversations">conversations</span> <span word="via">via</span> <span word="text">text</span> <span word="message">message</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="lead">lead</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="disconnect">disconnect</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="couples">couples</span>, <span word="according">according</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="research">research</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="Brigham">Brigham</span> <span word="Young">Young</span> <span word="University">University</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="using">using</span> <span word="text">text</span> <span word="messages">messages</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="apologize">apologize</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="impact">impact</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="women">women</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="satisfaction">satisfaction</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="prey">prey</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="habits">habits</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="sending">sending</span> <span word="loving">loving</span> <span word="messages">messages</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="enhance">enhance</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>.</p><p>杨百翰大学的研究表明：发短信说一些重大问题可能导致情侣双方脱轨。研究发现：短信道歉或通过短信解决问题会让女性对恋情满意度打负分。不要成为这些坏习惯的牺牲品。研究还发现：发送浪漫的短信会让你们的感情更好。</p>
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