别人否定你的时候更要相信自己
<p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="took">took</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="this">this</span>.</p><p>多年之后我才明白这个道理。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="realise">realise</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="surrounded">surrounded</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="toxic">toxic</span> <span word="people">people</span>,</p><p>我意识到自己被不怀好意的人包围</p><p><span word="of">of</span> <span word="course">course</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="objective">objective</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="cut">cut</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="down">down</span>.</p><p>当然他们的目标是困住我的手脚，让我飞不起来。</p><p><span word="Jealousy">Jealousy</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="poison">poison</span>.</p><p>嫉妒是一种毒药。</p><p><span word="Only">Only</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="removed">removed</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="that">that</span></p><p>直到最后，我从这些人的恶意中脱身</p><p><span word="and">and</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="healing">healing</span></p><p>我的自信开始愈合</p><p><span word="and">and</span> <span word="slowly">slowly</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="actual">actual</span> <span word="support">support</span></p><p>慢慢的，开始得到实际的帮助</p><p><span word="did">did</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="seeing">seeing</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>,</p><p>这时我才开始了解到事实真相</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="fed">fed</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="lies">lies</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="cut">cut</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="down">down</span></p><p>我听了太多旁人为了消磨我的斗志而说出的谎言</p><p><span word="so">so</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wouldn">wouldn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="achieve">achieve</span> <span word="anything">anything</span>.</p><p>他们就是希望我一事无成</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="low">low</span> <span word="self">self</span> <span word="concept">concept</span></p><p>我对自己的认知太过浅薄</p><p><span word="and">and</span> <span word="yet">yet</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="real">real</span>,</p><p>即浅薄又虚假</p><p><span word="it">it</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="based">based</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="judgments">judgments</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="others">others</span>.</p><p>这样的自我认知是建立在他人的评判之上</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="is">is</span>,</p><p>事实上</p><p><span word="if">if</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="took">took</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="cut">cut</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="down">down</span>,</p><p>如果有人愿意花时间给你设置障碍</p>
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