恋爱中自私的表现
<p>1. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="listen">listen</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="vent">vent</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="offer">offer</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="return">return</span>.</p><p>1. 你希望另一半听你发牢骚，但却不能相同以报。</p><p><span word="One">One</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="intimate">intimate</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="troubles">troubles</span> <span word="to">to</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="side">side</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="feels">feels</span> <span word="harsh">harsh</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="understood">understood</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="accepted">accepted</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="intimacy">intimacy</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="about">about</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="immediately">immediately</span> <span word="bored">bored</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="act">act</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="drag">drag</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="starts">starts</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="day">day</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="slamming">slamming</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="door">door</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="face">face</span>. <span word="Even">Even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="protest">protest</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="recipe">recipe</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="loneliness">loneliness</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>.</p><p>为什么要谈一段亲密恋情？原因之一就是：当我们遇到麻烦时会有人倾听，当世界"虐"我百遍时，会有人站在我身边。如果当另一半开始谈起他/她这一天的不顺而你却立即表现出兴致缺缺，或觉得他/她很扫兴时，这无异于你当着他/她的面'砰'地一声关上感情之门。即使你的另一半并未因此抗议，这依然会导致你们相恋却孤寂。</p>
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