拥有这8个特点的人都很有魅力
<p>1. <span word="They">They</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="listeners">listeners</span></p><p>1.他们是好的听众</p><p><span word="Charmers">Charmers</span> <span word="immerse">immerse</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="focus">focus</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="saying">saying</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="busy">busy</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="rebuttal">rebuttal</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="response">response</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="interrupt">interrupt</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="they">they</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span>. <span word="Instead">Instead</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="they">they</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="heard">heard</span>.</p><p>有魅力的人会关注并沉浸在对方所说的话中，他们不会忙着考虑怎样反驳或者做出回应，他们不会在对方说话时打断。相反他们会使对方感觉被倾听。</p><p>2. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="clearly">clearly</span></p><p>2.他们表达清楚</p><p><span word="They">They</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="sentence">sentence</span>, <span word="avoiding">avoiding</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="unnecessary">unnecessary</span> <span word="fillers">fillers</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="unclear">unclear</span>. <span word="These">These</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="communicators">communicators</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="confidently">confidently</span>, <span word="precisely">precisely</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="deliberately">deliberately</span>.</p><p>他们会花些时间考虑每句话，避免不必要的言语使自己表达不清。这些善于沟通的人说话很自信、严谨并且是经过深思熟虑的。</p><p>3. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="advice">advice</span></p><p>3.他们寻求建议</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="asks">asks</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="advice">advice</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="value">value</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="opinion">opinion</span>. <span word="Asking">Asking</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="area">area</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="expertise">expertise</span> <span word="helps">helps</span> <span word="boost">boost</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="favorably">favorably</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="memorably">memorably</span>.</p><p>有人向你寻求建议时说明他们看重你的想法。让别人分享专业的意见能帮他们建立自信，也有可能使他们更喜欢你更能记住你。</p><p>4. <span word="They">They</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="authentic">authentic</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="genuine">genuine</span></p>
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