这8种肢体语言，能够让别人更信任你
<p>1. <span word="Put">Put</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="down">down</span></p><p>1.放下手机</p><p><span word="Maintaining">Maintaining</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="build">build</span> <span word="trust">trust</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="genuine">genuine</span> <span word="interest">interest</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="that">that</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="glancing">glancing</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="scanning">scanning</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="room">room</span>.</p><p>别人说话时保持眼神交流有助于建立信任，因为这表示你真的感兴趣，但如果你一直看手机或扫视房间就很难有眼神接触了。</p><p>2. <span word="Uncross">Uncross</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="arms">arms</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="legs">legs</span></p><p>2.手臂和腿都不要交叉</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="crossing">crossing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="arms">arms</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="legs">legs</span>, <span word="say">say</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="cold">cold</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="stance">stance</span> <span word="closes">closes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="off">off</span>. <span word="Make">Make</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="looks">looks</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hearing">hearing</span> <span word="others">others</span>’ <span word="thoughts">thoughts</span>.</p><p>比如说你手臂或腿交叉可能只是因为冷了，但这个姿势把你自己封闭起来了。你要确保身体看起来是开放的，才能倾听别人的想法。</p><p>3. <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="sit">sit</span> <span word="behind">behind</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="desk">desk</span></p><p>3.不要坐在桌子后面</p><p><span word="Sitting">Sitting</span> <span word="behind">behind</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="desk">desk</span> <span word="creates">creates</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="barrier">barrier</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="walls">walls</span> <span word="up">up</span>.</p><p>坐在桌子后面就建立了另一个障碍，会使和你聊天的人把自己保护起来。</p><p>4. <span word="Touch">Touch</span> (<span word="appropriately">appropriately</span>)</p><p>4.触碰（适度地）</p><p><span word="Lightly">Lightly</span> <span word="touching">touching</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="hand">hand</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="indicate">indicate</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="support">support</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="A">A</span> <span word="touch">touch</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="elbow">elbow</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="shoulder">shoulder</span> <span word="communicates">communicates</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="empathy">empathy</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> ‘<span word="Oh">Oh</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="m">m</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="sorry">sorry</span>.</p><p>轻微触碰朋友的手表明你支持对方，触碰肘部或肩膀要比只说“哦，我很遗憾”更能表达同情。</p>
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