爱上一个自恋的人，怎么办？
<p><span word="What">What</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="emotionally">emotionally</span> <span word="attached">attached</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="narcissist">narcissist</span>?</p><p>爱上一个自恋的人该怎么办？</p><p>获得27.6<span word="k">k</span>好评的回答@ <span word="Elinor">Elinor</span> <span word="Greenberg">Greenberg</span>：</p><p><span word="Imagine">Imagine</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="brought">brought</span> <span word="home">home</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="adorable">adorable</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="dog">dog</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="beginning">beginning</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span>—<span word="handsome">handsome</span>, <span word="affectionate">affectionate</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="well">well</span>-<span word="behaved">behaved</span>. <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="pick">pick</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="food">food</span> <span word="bowl">bowl</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="bites">bites</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="hearing">hearing</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="dogs">dogs</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="territorial">territorial</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="food">food</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="decide">decide</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="chalk">chalk</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="bite">bite</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ignorance">ignorance</span>. <span word="From">From</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="careful">careful</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="suddenly">suddenly</span> <span word="invading">invading</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="space">space</span>. <span word="Cut">Cut</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="later">later</span>. <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="dog">dog</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="territory">territory</span> <span word="keeps">keeps</span> <span word="expanding">expanding</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="fewer">fewer</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="fewer">fewer</span> <span word="zones">zones</span> <span word="left">left</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p><p>想象你带回家一只新的可爱的小狗，最初他很完美——漂亮、跟你很亲热、表现很好。后来有一天你拿他装食物的碗时他咬了你。你记得听说过狗会护食，所以你决定要把他咬你的这一口归咎于自己的疏忽。从今以后你更加小心不能突然占了他的地盘。六个月以后，狗的地盘一再扩大，留给你的空间越来越小。</p><p><span word="Now">Now</span>, <span word="would">would</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="dog">dog</span>? <span word="If">If</span> <span word="not">not</span>, <span word="how">how</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="handle">handle</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="attachment">attachment</span>? <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="suggestions">suggestions</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="missing">missing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="Narcissist">Narcissist</span>:</p><p>现在你还留着这条狗吗？如果不留，怎样才能控制自己的喜欢呢？以下是几条建议，当你开始想念一个自恋的人的时候，你可以：</p><p><span word="Remember">Remember</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pain">pain</span> <span word="he">he</span>/<span word="she">she</span> <span word="inflicted">inflicted</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p>
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