永远别对自恋狂说这些话
<p><span word="Talking">Talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="narcissist">narcissist</span>-<span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="inflated">inflated</span> (<span word="and">and</span> <span word="immovable">immovable</span>) <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="worth">worth</span>-<span word="is">is</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="tiptoeing">tiptoeing</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="minefield">minefield</span>. <span word="Every">Every</span> <span word="word">word</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="utter">utter</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="potential">potential</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="detonate">detonate</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="full">full</span>-<span word="on">on</span> <span word="argument">argument</span>.</p><p>和自恋者聊天--自我价值感膨胀的人--就像在困境中涉险过关。你所说的每一个词都可能将你们的对话变成剑拔弩张的局面。</p><p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="you">you</span>. (<span word="Really">Really</span>.) <span word="People">People</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="narcissistic">narcissistic</span> "<span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="regulating">regulating</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="manage">manage</span> <span word="frustration">frustration</span> <span word="well">well</span>," <span word="explains">explains</span> <span word="Ramani">Ramani</span> <span word="Durvasula">Durvasula</span>, <span word="PhD">PhD</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="licensed">licensed</span> <span word="clinical">clinical</span> <span word="psychologist">psychologist</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="author">author</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Should">Should</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="Stay">Stay</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="Should">Should</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="Go">Go</span>: <span word="Surviving">Surviving</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Relationship">Relationship</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Narcissist">Narcissist</span>. "<span word="They">They</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="like">like</span> 3-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="olds">olds</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="adults">adults</span>; <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="tolerate">tolerate</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span> <span word="well">well</span>."</p><p>不是你。真的。自恋狂"不擅长调节情绪，也无法很好地控制沮丧之情，"<span word="Ramani">Ramani</span> <span word="Durvasula">Durvasula</span>博士解释道，她还是位持证临床心理学家，以及《何去何从：与自恋者的恋情》（<span word="Should">Should</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="Stay">Stay</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="Should">Should</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="Go">Go</span>: <span word="Surviving">Surviving</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Relationship">Relationship</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Narcissist">Narcissist</span>）一书的作者。"他们的表现不像是成年人，倒像是三岁的小宝宝；他们无法忍受任何强烈的情绪。"</p>
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