悦己者更容易有好运气
<p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="cherish">cherish</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="totally">totally</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span>. <span word="There">There</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="aura">aura</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="acceptance">acceptance</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="follows">follows</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="folks">folks</span> <span word="around">around</span>.</p><p>在我眼里，悦己的人非常可贵。他们身上总是闪耀着爱和接纳的光环。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="figured">figured</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="biggest">biggest</span> <span word="secrets">secrets</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="life">life</span>: <span word="The">The</span> <span word="possibility">possibility</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="loved">loved</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="accepted">accepted</span> <span word="grows">grows</span> <span word="exponentially">exponentially</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="truly">truly</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="couldn">couldn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span>.</p><p>我认为这是因为他们找到了一个生活最大的秘密：当我们能够真正悦己时，我们被爱和被接纳的可能性才会更大。</p><p><span word="People">People</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="threatening">threatening</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="protect">protect</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="threats">threats</span> <span word="aimed">aimed</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="insecurities">insecurities</span>.</p><p>人们喜欢和悦己的人在一起，因为和他们在一起比较有安全感，而人都有远离威胁、打消不安全感的需求。</p><p><span word="Insecurities">Insecurities</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="wounds">wounds</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="hurts">hurts</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="poke">poke</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="them">them</span>.</p><p>不安感就像是裸露的伤口，只要碰了就会疼。</p><p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="exhausting">exhausting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hang">hang</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="folks">folks</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="constantly">constantly</span> <span word="poke">poke</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="gain">gain</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="external">external</span> <span word="validation">validation</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="smaller">smaller</span>.</p><p>有些人就为了通过使别人觉得自己渺小而获得外界的某种认可，总是来戳我们的伤口。和这样的人待在一起，我们会筋疲力尽。</p>
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