人有19种微笑，但只有6种是开心的
<p><span word="Our">Our</span> <span word="grins">grins</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="seem">seem</span>. <span word="There">There</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="myriad">myriad</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="smile">smile</span> – <span word="and">and</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="conceal">conceal</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span>.</p><p>我们露齿而笑并不像看上去那么简单。微笑有无数种不同的方式，而其中一些方式可能隐藏了一些不愉快的心情。</p><p><span word="Of">Of</span> 19 <span word="different">different</span> <span word="types">types</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="smile">smile</span>, <span word="only">only</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="occur">occur</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="rest">rest</span> <span word="happen">happen</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="pain">pain</span>, <span word="embarrassed">embarrassed</span>, <span word="uncomfortable">uncomfortable</span>, <span word="horrified">horrified</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="miserable">miserable</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="smile">smile</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="contempt">contempt</span>, <span word="anger">anger</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="incredulity">incredulity</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="lying">lying</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="lost">lost</span>.</p><p>在19种不同的微笑中，只有6种是在我们开心的时候露出的微笑。其余的是在我们痛苦、尴尬、不舒服、害怕甚至是痛苦的时候露出的微笑。一个微笑可能意味着轻视、愤怒或怀疑，也可能意味着我们在说谎或我们失败了。</p><p><span word="While">While</span> <span word="genuine">genuine</span>, <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="smiles">smiles</span> <span word="exist">exist</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="reward">reward</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="done">done</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="helpful">helpful</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="survival">survival</span>, <span word="the">the</span> ‘<span word="non">non</span>-<span word="enjoyment">enjoyment</span>’ <span word="smiles">smiles</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="inside">inside</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="signal">signal</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="others">others</span>.</p><p>当我们做了对生存有帮助的事情时，我们会回以真诚、开心的微笑，而“不快乐”的微笑不在于你的内心感受，而更多地在于你想要向别人传达什么。</p>
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