meili 发表于 2022-10-18 20:57:02

如何在孩子们失控的情况下保持镇定

<p><span word="Tantrums">Tantrums</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="worst">worst</span>, <span word="am">am</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="right">right</span>?</p><p>发脾气是最糟糕的事了,对吗?</p><p><span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="parenting">parenting</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="react">react</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="Seriously">Seriously</span>, <span word="right">right</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="go">go</span>-<span word="to">to</span> <span word="responses">responses</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="toddler">toddler</span> <span word="losing">losing</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="shit">shit</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="either">either</span> <span word="joining">joining</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="theatrics">theatrics</span>, <span word="stomping">stomping</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="raising">raising</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="voice">voice</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="completely">completely</span> <span word="freezing">freezing</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="whatever">whatever</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="wants">wants</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="stop">stop</span>.</p><p>至今为止,我已当了4年的家长,但大多数时间里我还是不知道该如何对他们做出反应。说真的,我的孩子刚学会走路,现在只要她失控,我的反应要么就是和她一起演戏,到处跺脚、要么就是提高嗓门或者就是完全不理她,她想要什么就妥协,只要她不再大叫。</p>
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