涨知识：处理批评的正确方法
<p><span word="Coming">Coming</span> <span word="face">face</span>-<span word="to">to</span>-<span word="face">face</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="inadequacies">inadequacies</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="painful">painful</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="least">least</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="challenges">challenges</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>. <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="knee">knee</span>-<span word="jerk">jerk</span> <span word="reaction">reaction</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="defensive">defensive</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="dismiss">dismiss</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="critique">critique</span> <span word="entirely">entirely</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="handling">handling</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="feedback">feedback</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="grace">grace</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="decorum">decorum</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="gracious">gracious</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="ultimately">ultimately</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="grow">grow</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span>.</p><p>面对不足之处是痛苦的，至少可以说这样说。它让你质疑人们看待你的方式，甚至让你质疑自己。你也许会本能地开启防守，甚至进行驳回。但是，得体地处理负面信息不仅会让你更优雅，而且最终会帮助你成长。以下是方法。</p>
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