其实，你很成功
<p>很多人常常会通过与他人对比后，觉得自卑，觉得自己不如他人。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="compare">compare</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="unsuccessful">unsuccessful</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="entrepreneur">entrepreneur</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="compare">compare</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Richard">Richard</span> <span word="Branson">Branson</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="lose">lose</span>.</p><p>如果你拿自己跟别人比较，你很容易会认为自己并不成功。如果你是一名企业家，然后你跟<span word="Richard">Richard</span> <span word="Branson">Branson</span>相比，你输了。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="musician">musician</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="compare">compare</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Taylor">Taylor</span> <span word="Swift">Swift</span> (<span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="comparison">comparison</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="earnings">earnings</span>), <span word="you">you</span> <span word="lose">lose</span>.</p><p>如果你是一位音乐家，你跟<span word="Taylor">Taylor</span> <span word="Swift">Swift</span>相比(尤其是比收入)，你输了。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="goal">goal</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="compare">compare</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Steve">Steve</span> <span word="Jobs">Jobs</span> ... <span word="you">you</span> <span word="lose">lose</span>.</p><p>如果你的目标是改变世界，然后跟<span word="Steve">Steve</span> <span word="Jobs">Jobs</span>相比……你又输了。</p><p><span word="That">That</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="comparisons">comparisons</span>. <span word="No">No</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feel">feel</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="successful">successful</span>. <span word="There">There</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="better">better</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="smarter">smarter</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="wealthier">wealthier</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="seemingly">seemingly</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="happy">happy</span>.</p><p>这就是问题，你喜欢比较。不管你认为自己有多么成功，总会有人比你更成功，总会有人比你更好，更聪明，更富有，更快乐。</p><p><span word="So">So</span> <span word="let">let</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="comparing">comparing</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="focus">focus</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="signs">signs</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="think">think</span> — <span word="and">and</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="likelihood">likelihood</span>, <span word="happier">happier</span> <span word="too">too</span>:</p>
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