放下包袱吧，你在别人眼里没那么重要！
<p><span word="Caring">Caring</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="normal">normal</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="being">being</span>.</p><p>在意别人对你的看法是你作为正常人的一部分。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="scientists">scientists</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="reward">reward</span> <span word="center">center</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="people">people</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="brains">brains</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="active">active</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="approved">approved</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="taste">taste</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="music">music</span>.</p><p>事实上，科学家在一次研究中发现，当人们得知有人赞同他们的音乐品味时，大脑中的奖励中心就会变的活跃。</p><p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="consumed">consumed</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="worries">worries</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="reputation">reputation</span> — <span word="when">when</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="decision">decision</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="wear">wear</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hang">hang</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="with">with</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="pursue">pursue</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="based">based</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="stupid">stupid</span>.</p><p>当你过分担心自己的声誉时，这才会是个问题——你害怕自己的决定会看起来很愚蠢，比如穿什么、跟谁出去逛、甚至追求什么职业等。</p>
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