别人没有你想象的那么关注你
<p>受到赞赏时，我们会很愉悦，而受到质疑时，却常常使人感到沮丧，这是因为我们在意别人的看法，在意那个别人眼中的自己。在意别人的看法，有时候可以看到真实的自己，让自己不断进步，但是如果过分在意别人的看法，却会迷失自己，甚至使自己活的很累。其实，在生活中，别人也并没有你想象的那么关注自己，放下包袱吧，别活得那么累，做自己，才能活得舒心。那么，要怎么放下包袱，做自己呢？</p><p>1. <span word="Know">Know</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="okay">okay</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="care">care</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="think">think</span></p><p>1. 认识到在意别人的想法是可以的</p><p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="fine">fine</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="care">care</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="reputation">reputation</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="key">key</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="letting">letting</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="concern">concern</span> <span word="overwhelm">overwhelm</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p><p>关心你的名誉是好事。关键是不要让关心压倒你。</p><p><span word="Marissa">Marissa</span> <span word="Russell">Russell</span> <span word="writes">writes</span>:</p><p><span word="Marissa">Marissa</span> <span word="Russell">Russell</span>写到：</p><p>"<span word="You">You</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="fully">fully</span> <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="caring">caring</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p><p>“你永远不可能完全不去关心别人如何看待你。</p><p>"<span word="Because">Because</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="beings">beings</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="gatekeepers">gatekeepers</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="strive">strive</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="life">life</span> (<span word="job">job</span> <span word="hirings">hirings</span>, <span word="promotions">promotions</span>, <span word="award">award</span> <span word="nominations">nominations</span>, <span word="building">building</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="clientele">clientele</span>, <span word="finding">finding</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>, <span word="etc">etc</span>), <span word="what">what</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="various">various</span> <span word="cases">cases</span>.</p><p>“因为人类为了生活中如此多的事情在努力奋斗(工作岗位，晋升，奖励提名，建立客户，寻找生活伴侣，等等)，人们如何看待你在很多场合确实是很重要的。</p>
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