拒绝还是接纳——来自流浪汉的启发
<p>生活中，我们常常要面临选择，比如选择接纳，或者拒绝。那么，究竟怎样的选择才是对我们最好的呢？</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="usual">usual</span> <span word="morning">morning</span> <span word="run">run</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="stumbling">stumbling</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="late">late</span>-<span word="summer">summer</span> <span word="heat">heat</span>, <span word="wishing">wishing</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="taken">taken</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="water">water</span> <span word="bottle">bottle</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="stopped">stopped</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bridge">bridge</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="moment">moment</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="shade">shade</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="saw">saw</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="young">young</span>, <span word="scruffymen">scruffymen</span> <span word="standing">standing</span> <span word="next">next</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="sleeping">sleeping</span> <span word="bags">bags</span>. <span word="One">One</span> <span word="smiled">smiled</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="gently">gently</span> <span word="raised">raised</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="hand">hand</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="motioning">motioning</span>“<span word="hello">hello</span>” <span word="but">but</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="word">word</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="anything">anything</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="smiled">smiled</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="motion">motion</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="him">him</span>.</p><p>我像往常一样，早起晨跑，结果发现发现自己被夏末的热浪搞得够呛，真希望当时带了一瓶水喝。我跑到一座桥下，就这那的阴影乘了一会凉，看见两个邋遢的男人站在睡袋旁。一个微笑着轻轻举起手，好像在说“你好”，却一个字也没说。他没有要求任何东西。我微笑着和他做了同样的动作。</p><p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="run">run</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="crave">crave</span> <span word="connection">connection</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="moment">moment</span>, <span word="this">this</span> <span word="homeless">homeless</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="seemed">seemed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="connect">connect</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="food">food</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="money">money</span>.</p><p>当我开始继续跑步时，我意识到我们是多么渴望与别人建立关系。在那一刻，比起他想要的食物或钱，这个无家可归的人似乎更想要人与人间的联系。</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="experiences">experiences</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="separate">separate</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="lonely">lonely</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="lonely">lonely</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="void">void</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="connection">connection</span>. <span word="Feeling">Feeling</span> <span word="separation">separation</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="alone">alone</span> <span word="vs">vs</span>. <span word="being">being</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="people">people</span> — <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="desire">desire</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="connected">connected</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="valued">valued</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="person">person</span>.</p>
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