健康的恋爱关系
<p>你平时是怎么跟另一半相处的呢？你知道什么样的恋爱关系才是健康的吗？</p><p>1. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="day">day</span>.</p><p>你们不必每天都见面。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="not">not</span>? <span word="But">But</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="nag">nag</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="coming">coming</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="haven">haven</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="glimpse">glimpse</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="day">day</span> (<span word="yet">yet</span>). <span word="For">For</span> <span word="long">long</span>-<span word="distance">distance</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="insert">insert</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="five">five</span>-<span word="minute">minute</span> <span word="FaceTime">FaceTime</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="head">head</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="work">work</span> (<span word="and">and</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="hits">hits</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sack">sack</span>), <span word="then">then</span> <span word="great">great</span>.</p><p>如果能见面，为什么不见呢?但你们无需因为一天没见就烦恼着是你过去找他还是让他过来找你。对于异地恋来说，如果你们能在上班之前(和睡觉之前)抽出5分钟视频聊天就很好了。</p><p><span word="And">And</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="seeing">seeing</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="reached">reached</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="realized">realized</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="difference">difference</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="clingy">clingy</span>. <span word="Minus">Minus</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Skype">Skype</span>, <span word="FaceTime">FaceTime</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="whatever">whatever</span> <span word="video">video</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="apps">apps</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="use">use</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="present">present</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="knows">knows</span> <span word="that">that</span>.</p><p>我的意思不是说不要刻意为见面留出时间，只是你们的关系已经到了那种程度，你们已经明白在一起和腻在一起的区别。即使没有<span word="Skype">Skype</span>、<span word="FaceTime">FaceTime</span>以及你们使用的所有视频聊天工具，他也知道你的存在。</p><p>2. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="update">update</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="minute">minute</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="details">details</span>...</p>
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