“有毒朋友”，你们还要继续做朋友吗?
<p>根据美国研究人员的最新发现，如果一个人感到疲惫、崩溃或缺乏自信，不只是与个人有关，还可能与你的友谊有关。人的朋友大致可分这三种：良友、铮友、有毒朋友。有毒朋友是指那些用语言或行为给人带来困扰，让人感到精疲力尽、灰心丧气，最终破坏自己的心情和生活的朋友。</p><p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="challenging">challenging</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="recognize">recognize</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="damage">damage</span> <span word="caused">caused</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="toxic">toxic</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span>, <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="known">known</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="cared">cared</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="resolved">resolved</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="happier">happier</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="healthier">healthier</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="year">year</span>, <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="stock">stock</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="place">place</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="start">start</span>.</p><p>认清有毒朋友的危害非常难办到，特别是如果你已经认识他/她很久，关系也不错的时候。但如果你下决心想在新的一年中更快乐、更健康，清理一下你的朋友关系是个不错的开始。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, 84 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="women">women</span> — <span word="and">and</span> 75 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="men">men</span> — <span word="said">said</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="d">d</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="toxic">toxic</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="point">point</span>, <span word="with">with</span> 1 <span word="in">in</span> 3 <span word="survey">survey</span> <span word="takers">takers</span> <span word="fessing">fessing</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="toxic">toxic</span> <span word="BFF">BFF</span>.</p><p>事实上，84%的女性和75%的男性表示自己曾经有过有毒朋友，三分之一的受访者坦承曾经有过关系非常好的有毒朋友。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="harmful">harmful</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="insulting">insulting</span>, <span word="critical">critical</span>, <span word="petty">petty</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="selfish">selfish</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="honest">honest</span> <span word="advice">advice</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="angry">angry</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="deliver">deliver</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="suggest">suggest</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="toxic">toxic</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="persist">persist</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="unsolicited">unsolicited</span> <span word="advice">advice</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="considering">considering</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span>. <span word="Sometimes">Sometimes</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="burden">burden</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="problems">problems</span>, <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="job">job</span>, <span word="money">money</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="woes">woes</span> -- <span word="but">but</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="offer">offer</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="support">support</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="return">return</span>.</p>
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