讨厌被吐槽?但你却还在吐槽别人?
<p><span word="About">About</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="month">month</span> <span word="ago">ago</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="whole">whole</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="judging">judging</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="encountered">encountered</span>. <span word="Have">Have</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="tried">tried</span> <span word="it">it</span>? <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="incredibly">incredibly</span> <span word="hard">hard</span>.</p><p>大约一个月前的一天，我突然想要尝试坚持一天不去评判任何人。有人试过这么做吗?真的很难。</p><p><span word="There">There</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="walking">walking</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="street">street</span> <span word="blowing">blowing</span> <span word="cigarette">cigarette</span> <span word="smoke">smoke</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="kid">kid</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="face">face</span>; <span word="the">the</span> <span word="guy">guy</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="beach">beach</span> <span word="wearing">wearing</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="bright">bright</span> <span word="yellow">yellow</span> <span word="banana">banana</span> <span word="hammock">hammock</span>; <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="grocery">grocery</span> <span word="store">store</span> <span word="with">with</span> 30 <span word="items">items</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> 15-<span word="items">items</span>-<span word="or">or</span>-<span word="less">less</span> <span word="line">line</span>.</p><p>一位女士在街上走着，喷了一口烟在她孩子的脸上;沙滩上，一位男子躺在香蕉型大吊床上;杂货店的某个女人带着三十多件商品却跑去“15件以下”的队伍结账……</p><p><span word="My">My</span> <span word="challenge">challenge</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="whole">whole</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="judging">judging</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="turned">turned</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="exercise">exercise</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="myself">myself</span>; <span word="it">it</span> <span word="caused">caused</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="examining">examining</span> <span word="myself">myself</span>.</p><p>坚持一天不去评判别人，这项挑战到后来更像是一种练习，锻炼我少说闲话，多关注自己。它让我开始审视我自己。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="wonder">wonder</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="respond">respond</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="treat">treat</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="mirror">mirror</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="behave">behave</span>. <span word="Maybe">Maybe</span> <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="notice">notice</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="attributes">attributes</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="maybe">maybe</span> <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="attributes">attributes</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="skin">skin</span>. <span word="Perhaps">Perhaps</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="deep">deep</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="identify">identify</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="behaviors">behaviors</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="rub">rub</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="way">way</span>.</p>
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