塑造完美伴侣关系的5个小秘诀
<p><span word="There">There</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="research">research</span> <span word="behind">behind</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="work">work</span> — <span word="and">and</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="work">work</span>. <span word="To">To</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="short">short</span>, <span word="just">just</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="the">the</span> 5 <span word="R">R</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="mind">mind</span>:</p><p>什么能造就美满的情感关系?关于这个问题的研究非常之多。简单地说，你只要记住以下五个<span word="R">R</span>开头的单词：</p><p><span word="Right">Right</span>, <span word="Real">Real</span>, <span word="Rapport">Rapport</span>, <span word="Relate">Relate</span>, <span word="Review">Review</span></p><p>适量，真实，交流，相似，回顾</p><p><span word="Let">Let</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="break">break</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="down">down</span>.</p><p>下面让我们来仔细分析下。</p><p>1. <span word="Fight">Fight</span> <span word="Right">Right</span></p><p>1. 适量争吵</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="zero">zero</span> <span word="arguing">arguing</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="marriages">marriages</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="arguments">arguments</span> <span word="are">are</span> 35% <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span>.</p><p>你也许觉得没有争吵的情感关系很棒。可是没有争吵的婚姻离婚的可能性要比适当争吵的夫妇高出35%。</p><p><span word="Things">Things</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="worked">worked</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="compromise">compromise</span>.<span word="You">You</span> <span word="can">can</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="argue">argue</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="fight">fight</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="death">death</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fight">fight</span> <span word="right">right</span>.</p><p>事情需要被解决，你们也需要互相迁就。你不能避免争论，也不能争吵到生命尽头。吵架要适量。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="compassionate">compassionate</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="care">care</span> — <span word="even">even</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="midst">midst</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="screaming">screaming</span> <span word="match">match</span> — <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="shot">shot</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span>.</p><p>如果你保持同情心，并表现出关心对方的一面，那么即使两人都在吼叫，你们也有更大的机会收获幸福。</p>
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