你知道失败也能成就一个人吗?
<p><span word="Failure">Failure</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="inevitable">inevitable</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="smart">smart</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span>.</p><p>失败是生活中不可避免的一部分，但聪明的人知道如何利用它们。</p><p><span word="One">One</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="biggest">biggest</span> <span word="roadblocks">roadblocks</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="success">success</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="failure">failure</span>. <span word="Fear">Fear</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="failure">failure</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="worse">worse</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="failure">failure</span> <span word="itself">itself</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="condemns">condemns</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="unrealized">unrealized</span> <span word="potential">potential</span>.</p><p>通向成功的障碍之一是害怕失败。害怕失败比失败本身更可怕，因为它谴责你过着未知可能性的生活。</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="response">response</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="failure">failure</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="approach">approach</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="recently">recently</span> <span word="published">published</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Journal">Journal</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Experimental">Experimental</span> <span word="Social">Social</span> <span word="Psychology">Psychology</span>, <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="success">success</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="failure">failure</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="focusing">focusing</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="results">results</span> (<span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="hope">hope</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="achieve">achieve</span>), <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fail">fail</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="tempting">tempting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="failure">failure</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="fail">fail</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="optimistically">optimistically</span> <span word="focus">focus</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="goals">goals</span>.</p><p>对失败最成功的回应在于你的方法。在《实验社会心理学杂志》最新发表的一篇研究中，研究人员发现，勇于面对挫折的成功感来源于对结果的关注(你希望实现的事)，而不是尽量避免失败。尽管每个人对于失败都带有一种侥幸的心理，但这么做的人往往比那些乐观专注于自己目标的人更容易失败。</p><p>如何利用失败成就自己?</p><p>"<span word="Success">Success</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="stumbling">stumbling</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="failure">failure</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="failure">failure</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="loss">loss</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="enthusiasm">enthusiasm</span>." --<span word="Winston">Winston</span> <span word="Churchill">Churchill</span>“</p>
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