西方的“拥抱文化”，你了解多少
<p>拥抱对于一些人来说是温馨的感情表达，但并非所有人都能接受这种亲密的肢体接触。对于一些政要名流而言，拥抱更是已经沦为一种作秀，变了味道。</p><p><span word="we">we</span> <span word="chinese">chinese</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="huggers">huggers</span>. <span word="a">a</span> <span word="handshake">handshake</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="pat">pat</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="shoulder">shoulder</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="convey">convey</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="affection">affection</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="another">another</span>. <span word="so">so</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="newly">newly</span>-<span word="acquainted">acquainted</span> <span word="western">western</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="reach">reach</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="preparation">preparation</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hug">hug</span>, <span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="awkward">awkward</span>.</p><p>我们中国人并不怎么喜欢拥抱。握手或者是拍拍肩膀就足以表达人们相互之间的友谊和感情了。当新结识的老外朋友伸出双臂想要给我们一个拥抱时，很多人都面露难色。</p><p><span word="many">many</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="head">head</span>. <span word="where">where</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="i">i</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="arms">arms</span>? <span word="under">under</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="armpits">armpits</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="neck">neck</span>? <span word="what">what</span> <span word="distance">distance</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="i">i</span> <span word="maintain">maintain</span>? <span word="should">should</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="chests">chests</span> <span word="touch">touch</span>?</p><p>我们脑海中浮现出许多问号。拥抱时手臂应该放在什么位置?是对方的肋下，还是绕颈紧拥?应保持怎样的距离?是否要零距离拥抱?</p><p><span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="european">european</span> <span word="countries">countries</span>. <span word="should">should</span> <span word="i">i</span> <span word="kiss">kiss</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="cheek">cheek</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="hugging">hugging</span>? <span word="which">which</span> <span word="side">side</span>? <span word="or">or</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="cheeks">cheeks</span>? <span word="which">which</span> <span word="side">side</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="i">i</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="on">on</span>?</p><p>跟从欧洲国家来的朋友接触会难上加难。是不是应该在拥抱时报以“吻脸礼”呢?应该亲吻哪一边，还是吻两颊?如果是后者，那么应该从哪一边开始呢?</p>
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