做好这9件事,还怕同事不好相处吗?
<p>1.<span word="Communicate">Communicate</span></p><p>1.沟通</p><p><span word="One">One</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="worst">worst</span> <span word="pitfalls">pitfalls</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="collaboration">collaboration</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="misunderstanding">misunderstanding</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="participants">participants</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="immediately">immediately</span>, <span word="whenever">whenever</span> <span word="confused">confused</span>, <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="clarification">clarification</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="hurtful">hurtful</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="prefer">prefer</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="emails">emails</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="texts">texts</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="context">context</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="subtlety">subtlety</span> <span word="gets">gets</span> <span word="lost">lost</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="believe">believe</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="electronic">electronic</span> <span word="communication">communication</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span> <span word="communicating">communicating</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="email">email</span>. <span word="Know">Know</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="preferences">preferences</span>. <span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="honor">honor</span> <span word="them">them</span>.</p><p>在合作中有一个很大的陷阱是参与者之间存在误会,所以无论何时感到疑惑,要立刻把那些看起来有伤害的事情问清楚。相较于邮件或信息,我更习惯面对面的交流。因为我觉得在电子通信中我们的交流失去了很多情境以及细节信息。但另一些人可能更习惯听过邮件联络,要清楚伙伴的喜好,最大程度的尊重他们。</p><p>2.<span word="Empathize">Empathize</span></p><p>2.换位思考</p><p><span word="Every">Every</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mouth">mouth</span>, <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="shoes">shoes</span>. <span word="How">How</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="words">words</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="saying">saying</span>? <span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="collaborator">collaborator</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="stuff">stuff</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="amenable">amenable</span> <span word="today">today</span>? <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="toggle">toggle</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="forth">forth</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="mode">mode</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="mode">mode</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="process">process</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="people">people</span>.</p><p>每次你开口时,都尽量站在伙伴的立场考虑。当听到你说的话时会作何反应?你的合作伙伴是否因为一些个人的事情才导致了当天状态不佳?不要害怕在工作模式和生活模式之间来回切换,其实这对于工作和个人来说都更好。</p>
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