十个方法，让你快速挖掘你的个人特质
<p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="Start">Start</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="things">things</span>. <span word="Take">Take</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="steps">steps</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="choices">choices</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="gain">gain</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="decision">decision</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="secure">secure</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="choices">choices</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="gain">gain</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="secure">secure</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="abilities">abilities</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="general">general</span>.</p><p>从小事着手。认真做好每一件小事，收集点滴的自信，继而相信自己的能力，更好地驾驭自己。</p><p>2 <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="please">please</span> <span word="others">others</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="considerate">considerate</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="care">care</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="others">others</span>' <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="also">also</span>. <span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="either">either</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="uniqueness">uniqueness</span>. <span word="Strive">Strive</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="best">best</span>, <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="criticize">criticize</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="short">short</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="expectations">expectations</span>.</p><p>不要试图讨好每一个人。关心他人的想法是好的，但是自己的需要更重要。不要试图去做别人，只要发挥自己的独特闪光点你才能做最好的自己。</p><p>3 <span word="Avoid">Avoid</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="People">People</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="attitude">attitude</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="rub">rub</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="timid">timid</span>, <span word="loud">loud</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="aggressive">aggressive</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="vice">vice</span> <span word="versa">versa</span>. <span word="Whatever">Whatever</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span>, <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="compare">compare</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="others">others</span>. <span word="Just">Just</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span>.</p><p>减少和消极的人接触。他们的观点有可能会影响到你，如果你胆小，那么嗓门大的，咄咄逼人的人有可能不适合你。反过来也是一样。不要拿自己和别人比，你就是最好的你。</p>
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