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<p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="us">us</span>. <span word="Deep">Deep</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="hearts">hearts</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="supported">supported</span>, <span word="respected">respected</span>, <span word="and">and</span>, <span word="most">most</span> <span word="importantly">importantly</span>, <span word="loved">loved</span>.</p><p>我们都希望别人喜欢自己。内心深处，我们都渴望被支持、被尊重，更重要的是，被爱。</p><p><span word="Yet">Yet</span>, <span word="unfortunately">unfortunately</span>, <span word="for">for</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="easier">easier</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="done">done</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="short">short</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="finding">finding</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="desire">desire</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="experience">experience</span>.</p><p>然而不幸的是，对很多人来说，这说起来容易做起来难。我们觉得总是找不到自己渴望拥有的爱。</p><p><span word="Here">Here</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="thing">thing</span>: <span word="Many">Many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="waste">waste</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="energy">energy</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="positively">positively</span> <span word="serving">serving</span> <span word="us">us</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="worry">worry</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="obsess">obsess</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="past">past</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="work">work</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="underlying">underlying</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="of">of</span> "<span word="Will">Will</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="rejected">rejected</span>?"</p><p>事实是这样：很多人把精力浪费在对我们没有帮助的事情上。我们担心某人是否喜欢自己;我们执着于一段不欢而散的感情;初次约会时，我们心里一直想着：“我会被拒绝吗?”</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="trouble">trouble</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="things">things</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="allow">allow</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="suck">suck</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="energy">energy</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="prevents">prevents</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="truly">truly</span> <span word="standing">standing</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="unique">unique</span> <span word="power">power</span>.</p><p>问题是，当我们这么做的时候，我们让这些琐事吸取了自己的精力，阻碍我们真正屹立于自己独特的力量中。</p>
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