跌倒了马上爬起来：失败时记得问自己5个问题
<p><span word="Lets">Lets</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="fail">fail</span>. 人人都有失败，不如坦然面对。</p><p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="dont">dont</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="out">out</span>, <span word="jobs">jobs</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="arent">arent</span> <span word="right">right</span>, <span word="exams">exams</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="flunk">flunk</span>, <span word="initiatives">initiatives</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="dont">dont</span> <span word="succeed">succeed</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="failures">failures</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="failure">failure</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="new">new</span>. 这一生，我们总会遇到纠缠不清的人际关系、不甚满意的工作、未通过的考试，或者不曾实现的计划。尝试越多，挫折也越多。除非什么都不干，否则难免遭受打击。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="deal">deal</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="failure">failure</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="downward">downward</span> <span word="slide">slide</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span> <span word="reinforces">reinforces</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="inadequacy">inadequacy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="incompetence">incompetence</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="experiencing">experiencing</span> <span word="failure">failure</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="learning">learning</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="opportunity">opportunity</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fresh">fresh</span> <span word="start">start</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="begin">begin</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="process">process</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="yoruself">yoruself</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="tough">tough</span> <span word="questions">questions</span>. 关键是我们如何面对失败。人走下坡路，往往会自卑，感到无能为力。但失败也是吸取教训、重新开始的机会。要重新开始，最好认真思考下面几个问题。</p><p>1. <span word="What">What</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="this">this</span>? 我从失败中学到了什么?</p><p><span word="Take">Take</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span>. <span word="OK">OK</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="fault">fault</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="was">was</span>. <span word="Successful">Successful</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="dont">dont</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="excuses">excuses</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="blame">blame</span> <span word="others">others</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="ownership">ownership</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="issues">issues</span>. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="critical">critical</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="constructive">constructive</span>. <span word="Try">Try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> <span word="objectively">objectively</span>. <span word="Make">Make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="list">list</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="key">key</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="happened">happened</span>. <span word="Analyze">Analyze</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="list">list</span> <span word="step">step</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="step">step</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="learning">learning</span> <span word="points">points</span>. 为所犯的错承担责任。的确，失败并非完全你的错，但你也确实在责难逃吧。成功的人从来不为失败找借口或抱怨他人，而是坦然承担责任。所以，试着客观看待挫折，列出清单，一步一步认真总结才好。</p>
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