职场百科:办公室友谊7条不成文法则
<p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="day">day</span>, <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="bound">bound</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="handled">handled</span> <span word="correctly">correctly</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="enjoyable">enjoyable</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="tolerable">tolerable</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="desirable">desirable</span> <span word="job">job</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="pitfalls">pitfalls</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="careful">careful</span>.</p><p>每天和一帮人在一起工作,你一定会交到一些朋友。如果处理得当的话,友谊会让工作更加愉快。如果你的工作并不尽如人意,它至少会让你多一份包容。但如果不小心也可能会有陷阱。</p><p><span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="office">office</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="outlive">outlive</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="job">job</span>; <span word="others">others</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="not">not</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="either">either</span> <span word="case">case</span>, <span word="office">office</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="valuable">valuable</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="professional">professional</span> <span word="network">network</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="boost">boost</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="managed">managed</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="professional">professional</span> <span word="manner">manner</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="mishandled">mishandled</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="tremendous">tremendous</span> <span word="amount">amount</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="damage">damage</span>. <span word="What">What</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span>:</p><p>有的办公室友谊比这份工作本身更长久,有的则不是。不管怎样,办公室友谊都是任何职业道路上宝贵的一部分。如果你以职业的态度来对待,它还会促进你的职业发展。如果处理不当则可能给你造成巨大的损失。下面是你需要明白的:</p><p>1. <span word="Beware">Beware</span> <span word="oversharing">oversharing</span></p><p>小心过度分享</p><p><span word="Share">Share</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="caution">caution</span>. <span word="Take">Take</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="co">co</span>-<span word="workers">workers</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bit">bit</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="divulging">divulging</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="information">information</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="appropriate">appropriate</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="professional">professional</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="trust">trust</span>. <span word="Have">Have</span> <span word="clear">clear</span> <span word="boundaries">boundaries</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="is">is</span> “<span word="shareable">shareable</span>” <span word="and">and</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span>. <span word="Think">Think</span> “<span word="TMI">TMI</span>” (<span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="information">information</span>.) <span word="Family">Family</span> <span word="updates">updates</span>, <span word="hobbies">hobbies</span>, <span word="interests">interests</span>, <span word="educational">educational</span> <span word="pursuits">pursuits</span>, <span word="etc">etc</span>. <span word="are">are</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="fair">fair</span> <span word="game">game</span>. <span word="Illegal">Illegal</span> <span word="activities">activities</span>, <span word="intimate">intimate</span> <span word="details">details</span>, <span word="and">and</span> “<span word="resume">resume</span> <span word="exaggerations">exaggerations</span>,” <span word="not">not</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span>.</p>
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