职场百科：盘点职场七招最有效拍马屁技巧
<p><span word="Yes">Yes</span>, <span word="kissing">kissing</span> <span word="ass">ass</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="ahead">ahead</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="studies">studies</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="shown">shown</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="obvious">obvious</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="backfire">backfire</span>.<span word="The">The</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="seven">seven</span> <span word="techniques">techniques</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="ingratiation">ingratiation</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="influence">influence</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="effective">effective</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="moving">moving</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="corporate">corporate</span> <span word="ladder">ladder</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="kiss">kiss</span>-<span word="ass">ass</span>:</p><p>没错，拍马屁确实能帮助你平步青云，不过研究也表明，当你的奉承太过明显的时候，那反而会弄巧成拙。下面介绍七种最有效的溜须拍马之术，不仅能让你扶摇直上，还能让你拍马屁也不着痕迹。</p><p>1.<span word="Frame">Frame</span> <span word="flattery">flattery</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="boss">boss</span> <span word="uncomfortable">uncomfortable</span>。…<span word="one">one</span> <span word="manager">manager</span> <span word="noted">noted</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="commonly">commonly</span> <span word="prefaces">prefaces</span> <span word="flattering">flattering</span> <span word="remarks">remarks</span> <span word="withsuch">withsuch</span> <span word="phrases">phrases</span> <span word="as">as</span> “<span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="embarrass">embarrass</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="but">but</span>. . . ,” <span word="or">or</span> “<span word="I">I</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="won">won</span>’<span word="twant">twant</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="but">but</span>. . . ,” <span word="or">or</span> “<span word="You">You</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hate">hate</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="but">but</span>…</p><p>1.先抑后扬地拍马屁。有一个经理表示，他经常面对诸如此类的恭维话语：“我不想让你觉得尴尬，但是……”，或“我知道你不希望我提起，但是……”，或“我说了你恐怕要怪我，但是……”</p><p>2.<span word="Frame">Frame</span> <span word="flattery">flattery</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="advice">advice</span> <span word="seeking">seeking</span>。 …<span word="One">One</span> <span word="manager">manager</span> <span word="suggested">suggested</span>, “. . . <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="admire">admire</span> <span word="him">him</span>, <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> ‘<span word="I">I</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="admire">admire</span> <span word="you">you</span>,’ <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="advice">advice</span>: ‘<span word="How">How</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="pull">pull</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="strategy">strategy</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="successfully">successfully</span>?’ <span word="something">something</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="that">that</span> . . . <span word="the">the</span> <span word="basic">basic</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="how">how</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="replicate">replicate</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="success">success</span>?” <span word="Such">Such</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="frame">frame</span> <span word="flattery">flattery</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="attempt">attempt</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="alter">alter</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="attempt">attempt</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="curry">curry</span> <span word="favor">favor</span>…”</p>
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