职场英语：职场上最忌讳的6种说话方式
<p>研究表明，一个人的人际关系好坏和他平时的说话习惯是高度相关的。老话说得好，祸从口出，糟糕的说话方式很容易破坏你平日里精心培养起来的人际关系。看看以下的6种说话的禁忌有没有在你身上发生吧。</p><p>1. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Fake">Fake</span> <span word="Agreement">Agreement</span>: <span word="Pretending">Pretending</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="agree">agree</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="expressing">expressing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="view">view</span>.</p><p>1.虚假认同：假装认同别人的同时却表现出相反的观点。</p><p><span word="Typical">Typical</span> <span word="usage">usage</span>: “<span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span>… <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="project">project</span>.”</p><p>经典语句：“我很赞同你的观点……不过我不认为我们应该采用那个项目。”</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="reality">reality</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="agree">agree</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="m">m</span> <span word="saying">saying</span>. (<span word="Plus">Plus</span> <span word="beginning">beginning</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sentence">sentence</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="like">like</span>, “<span word="I">I</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="you">you</span>…” <span word="is">is</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="condescending">condescending</span> <span word="pat">pat</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="head">head</span>.)</p><p>事实是你根本不同意我，因为不管我说什么你都会说你同意。（补充一句，如果一句话用“我听说你……”这样的语句来开头的话，听上去就好像上级拍着下级的脑袋在讲话一样。）</p><p><span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="couch">couch</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="opinion">opinion</span> <span word="inside">inside</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="warm">warm</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="fuzzy">fuzzy</span> <span word="Fake">Fake</span> <span word="Agreement">Agreement</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="disagree">disagree</span>, <span word="just">just</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="professionally">professionally</span>.</p><p>不要试着把不同的意见硬装在一句友善的、模棱两可的赞同中。你要是不同意，就直接正式地说出来。</p><p>2. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Unsupported">Unsupported</span> <span word="Closure">Closure</span>: <span word="Ending">Ending</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="discussion">discussion</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="decision">decision</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="backup">backup</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="solid">solid</span> <span word="justification">justification</span>.</p>
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