你的朋友浑身负能量？五大理由远离TA
<p><span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="consider">consider</span> <span word="toxic">toxic</span>: <span word="the">the</span> <span word="loser">loser</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="disrupts">disrupts</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="entire">entire</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="second">second</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="step">step</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="easier">easier</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="cut">cut</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="loose">loose</span>, <span word="yet">yet</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="figuring">figuring</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="leave">leave</span>.</p><p>大多数人都至少有一个浑身散发负能量的“有毒”的朋友：只要他们前脚踏足，我们的世界马上变得乱七八糟。我们都知道远离这样的朋友，事情会变得更加简单，其实我们已经花了太多时间去思考为什么还要留在这样的朋友身边。</p><p><span word="Why">Why</span> <span word="You">You</span> <span word="Have">Have</span> <span word="Loser">Loser</span> <span word="Friends">Friends</span></p><p>为什么你有负能量的朋友</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="truth">truth</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="happens">happens</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="multitude">multitude</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span>:</p><p>实际上，有很多原因：</p><p><span word="You">You</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="since">since</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>.</p><p>你们是发小。</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="constantly">constantly</span> <span word="justifying">justifying</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="behavior">behavior</span>.</p><p>太了解他们了，所以经常评判他们的行为。</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="guilty">guilty</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="to">to</span>.</p><p>他们没有其他可以求助的对象，所以你会有负罪感。</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="obligated">obligated</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="mutual">mutual</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="BFF">BFF</span>/<span word="spouse">spouse</span>/<span word="family">family</span> <span word="member">member</span>.</p><p>他们也是你男朋友/配偶/家庭成员，所以你觉得有责任要陪着他们。</p><p><span word="You">You</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="they">they</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="react">react</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="confront">confront</span> <span word="them">them</span> (<span word="a">a</span>.<span word="k">k</span>.<span word="a">a</span>. <span word="more">more</span> <span word="drama">drama</span>).</p><p>如果你跟他们正面遭遇，你很怕他们会有的反应（会更戏剧化）。</p>
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