学会和搭档“分手”：正确处理同事间关系
<p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="begins">begins</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="sour">sour</span>, <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="peace">peace</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="office">office</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="there">there</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="professional">professional</span> <span word="setting">setting</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="day">day</span>.</p><p>如果和同事间的友情开始变味了，有时候保持办公室和平最好的方式就是结束这段关系。但是，要想在抬头不见低头见的工作环境中与同事和平“分手”并非易事。</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="dug">dug</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="issue">issue</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ideal">ideal</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="distance">distance</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="working">working</span>.</p><p>我们想要看看有没有一种理想的方式，可以正确处理一段已经“寿终正寝”的工作伙伴关系。</p><p><span word="Chris">Chris</span> <span word="Aung">Aung</span>-<span word="Thwin">Thwin</span>, <span word="an">an</span> <span word="editor">editor</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="AskMen">AskMen</span>.<span word="com">com</span>, <span word="said">said</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="approach">approach</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="dramatic">dramatic</span> <span word="one">one</span>.</p><p>知名网站<span word="AskMen">AskMen</span>的编辑<span word="Chris">Chris</span> <span word="Aung">Aung</span>-<span word="Thwin">Thwin</span>表示，解决同事间关系的最好办法就是低调处理。</p><p>"<span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="fizzle">fizzle</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="direct">direct</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="somebody">somebody</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="toxic">toxic</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="working">working</span>," <span word="he">he</span> <span word="said">said</span>.</p><p>他说，“我会选择冷处理和同事间的关系，而不是直接去找某个人谈，告诉他/她为什么我们的关系是有害的或者有问题的。”</p><p><span word="Ending">Ending</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="confrontation">confrontation</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="result">result</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="haunt">haunt</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="office">office</span> <span word="worse">worse</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>, <span word="Aung">Aung</span>-<span word="Thwin">Thwin</span> <span word="added">added</span>.</p><p>如果是以对抗的方式结束一段办公室友谊的话，会让人感到不快，导致办公室的气氛更加恶劣。</p>
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