工作中的人气陷阱
<p>有愉快的同事关系，受到同事的欢迎恐怕是每个职场人的想法。但是，当人气与敬业之间出现矛盾时，比如作为主管，工作的需要你得要求大家加班，但是谁都知道这不讨好，这种时候你该怎么办呢？是好好先生做到底，还是雷厉风行的保证工作顺利开展？下面就如何对待职场中的人气陷阱给大家一些建议，尤其是刚刚开始工作的学生。</p><p><span word="THE">THE</span> <span word="POPULARITY">POPULARITY</span> <span word="TRAP">TRAP</span> 人气陷阱</p><p><span word="Respect">Respect</span> <span word="versus">versus</span> <span word="popularity">popularity</span>-<span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="conflict">conflict</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="professional">professional</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="personal">personal</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="job">job</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span>, <span word="too">too</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="truth">truth</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="liked">liked</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="properly">properly</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="desire">desire</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="weakness">weakness</span>.</p><p>受人尊敬与受人欢迎归结起来其实是敬业和个人化之间的矛盾。我们都想把工作做好，同时我们也想和所有的人成为朋友。而实情是如果你想把工作做好的话，你就必然不讨人喜爱。想成为好好先生的一厢情愿往往会成为你的弱点。</p><p>"<span word="At">At</span> <span word="best">best</span>," <span word="says">says</span> <span word="management">management</span> <span word="consultant">consultant</span> <span word="Jennie">Jennie</span> <span word="Lumley">Lumley</span>, "<span word="worrying">worrying</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="reactive">reactive</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="proactive">proactive</span>. <span word="At">At</span> <span word="worst">worst</span>, <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="busy">busy</span> <span word="playing">playing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="office">office</span> <span word="sweetheart">sweetheart</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="lose">lose</span> <span word="sight">sight</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="demands">demands</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="needs">needs</span>."</p><p>管理咨询专家詹妮·伦莉说：“太介意别人的看法对工作没有好处，勉强说得上好的话就是当我们必须积极面对的时候，我们开始有了反应；而最糟糕的局面是大家都热衷于做办公室的好好先生，而漠视了工作和我们本身的要求。”</p>
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