同事嫉妒你时怎么办?
<p>你在工作中比别人出色，你更快地获得了提升和加薪，你得到和<span word="CEO">CEO</span>共进午餐的机会……凭什么好事都你一个人得了？被同事妒忌的滋味其实不好受，这个时候你该怎么办呢？</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="object">object</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="another">another</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="jealousy">jealousy</span>:</p><p>如果你是被妒忌的对象：</p><p>* <span word="Save">Save</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="brag">brag</span>-<span word="athon">athon</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="work">work</span>.</p><p>吹嘘留到下班后</p><p>"<span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="closer">closer</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="bosses">bosses</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="promotions">promotions</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="raises">raises</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="create">create</span> <span word="hostility">hostility</span>," <span word="explains">explains</span> <span word="Tina">Tina</span> <span word="Lewis">Lewis</span> <span word="Rowe">Rowe</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="coach">coach</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Denver">Denver</span>. "<span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="employee">employee</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="fortune">fortune</span> <span word="handles">handles</span> <span word="it">it</span>.”</p><p>来自丹佛市的职业教练<span word="Tina">Tina</span> <span word="Lewis">Lewis</span> <span word="Rowe">Rowe</span>说：“导致敌意的往往不是和老板关系紧密、晋升或加薪，而是交了好运的员工处理的方式。”</p><p><span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="name">name</span>-<span word="drop">drop</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="CEO">CEO</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="lunch">lunch</span> <span word="with">with</span>, <span word="mention">mention</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="conference">conference</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="attending">attending</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="excitedly">excitedly</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="salary">salary</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="less">less</span>-<span word="fortunate">fortunate</span> <span word="coworkers">coworkers</span>. "<span word="Even">Even</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="saint">saint</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="trouble">trouble</span> <span word="smiling">smiling</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="circumstances">circumstances</span>," <span word="she">she</span> <span word="says">says</span>.</p><p>当着不那么幸运的同事们的面，不要说自己和<span word="CEO">CEO</span>共进午餐，不要提你参加的会议、或者兴奋地谈论你的新工作或薪水。她说：“即便圣人也很难在这种情况下为别人微笑或高兴。”</p><p>* <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="apologize">apologize</span>.</p><p>不要赔不是</p><p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="natural">natural</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="humbled">humbled</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="wonderful">wonderful</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="development">development</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="raise">raise</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="undeserving">undeserving</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feel">feel</span>, <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Lewis">Lewis</span> <span word="Rowe">Rowe</span>. <span word="Chances">Chances</span> <span word="are">are</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="agree">agree</span>.</p>
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