接受这世界 你会快乐
<p>我们能让这世界变得更美好么?这句话本身就是一个错误的假设,认为这世界不好。反过来,我们应该说世界就是这样的,没有什么绝对的好与不好。这是我们选择的生活方式,也是我们喜欢的生活方式。换个角度看待事物:接受并试着理解。接受这世界,你会快乐。</p><p>&<span word="ldquo">ldquo</span>;<span word="There">There</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="either">either</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="bad">bad</span>,<span word="but">but</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="so">so</span>.&<span word="mdash">mdash</span>;<span word="William">William</span> <span word="Shakespeare">Shakespeare</span>, &<span word="ldquo">ldquo</span>;<span word="Hamlet">Hamlet</span></p><p><span word="One">One</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="greatest">greatest</span> <span word="sources">sources</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="unhappiness">unhappiness</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="experience">experience</span>, <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="difficulty">difficulty</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="accepting">accepting</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span>.</p><p><span word="Without">Without</span> <span word="judgment">judgment</span>, <span word="without">without</span> <span word="wishing">wishing</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="otherwise">otherwise</span>.</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="like">like</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="wish">wish</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="different">different</span> &<span word="mdash">mdash</span>; <span word="we">we</span> <span word="cry">cry</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="better">better</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="nature">nature</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="perhaps">perhaps</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="singrained">singrained</span>(根深蒂固的)<span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="culture">culture</span>.</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="root">root</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="unhappiness">unhappiness</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="necessarily">necessarily</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="different">different</span>, <span word="however">however</span>: <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="decided">decided</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>&<span word="rsquo">rsquo</span>;<span word="t">t</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="place">place</span>. <span word="We">We</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="judged">judged</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="bad">bad</span>, <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="saying">saying</span>, "<span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="good">good</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="is">is</span>."</p><p><span word="An">An</span> <span word="example">example</span>: <span word="In">In</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="recent">recent</span> <span word="post">post</span>, <span word="A">A</span> <span word="Beautiful">Beautiful</span> <span word="Method">Method</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Find">Find</span> <span word="Peace">Peace</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Mind">Mind</span>, <span word="quite">quite</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="commenters">commenters</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="outlook">outlook</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="negative">negative</span>,<span word="pessimistic">pessimistic</span>(悲观的),<span word="orfatalistic">orfatalistic</span>(宿命论的)&<span word="hellip">hellip</span>; <span word="because">because</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="mess">mess</span> <span word="up">up</span>, <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="differently">differently</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="planned">planned</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="embrace">embrace</span> <span word="that">that</span>.</p>
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