有句话常挂嘴边
<p>“我怎么这么倒霉呢！”</p><p>"<span word="Why">Why</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="unlucky">unlucky</span>!"</p><p>这是有些人在生活不顺、事业受挫，人际关系紧张、意外遭遇打击等等不如意后常挂在嘴边的一句话。</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sentence">sentence</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="smooth">smooth</span>, <span word="their">their</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="frustrated">frustrated</span>, <span word="their">their</span> <span word="interpersonal">interpersonal</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="tense">tense</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="hit">hit</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="accidents">accidents</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="on">on</span>.</p><p>“我怎么这么倒霉”，言外之意很丰富：一、我本不应该有这些不如意，但却偏偏让我赶上了，倒霉！二、别人遇到这些事往往会逢凶化吉、转危为安，而我却屋漏偏逢连阴雨，霉上加霉！于是捶胸顿足、呼天抢地、怨天尤人，好像自己是天底下第一大窦娥似的。</p><p>"<span word="How">How</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="unlucky">unlucky</span>?" <span word="the">the</span> <span word="implication">implication</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="rich">rich</span>: <span word="first">first</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="catch">catch</span> <span word="up">up</span>, <span word="unlucky">unlucky</span>! 2、 <span word="Others">Others</span> <span word="encounter">encounter</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="luck">luck</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="good">good</span>, <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="crisis">crisis</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="one">one</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="leaking">leaking</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="rainy">rainy</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="luck">luck</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="added">added</span>! <span word="So">So</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="beat">beat</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="chest">chest</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="beat">beat</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="feet">feet</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="cried">cried</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="heaven">heaven</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="earth">earth</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="complained">complained</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="everything">everything</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="biggest">biggest</span> <span word="Dou">Dou</span>'<span word="e">e</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>.</p><p>生活中，谁都不可能总是一帆风顺，“月有阴晴圆缺”，工作上出了点儿差错，婚姻上荡几个漩涡，闯红灯被扣分罚款，逛商场买到了伪劣产品，走在大街上被无赖纠缠，到机关办事被抢白勒索，等等。事儿发生了，吐一吐苦水，抱怨两三声，对着苍天高喊“我怎么那么倒霉呢”，舒缓一下内心的紧张，获得暂时的心理平衡，未尝不是一个好的办法。但若沉湎于“我怎么那么倒霉呢”的旋涡中不能自拔，我认为是一种很危险的情绪：轻者，情绪处于一种非常态的场中，没心思工作，没精神享受生活，这会影响自己的生命质量，还会影响自己的家庭、朋友、同事；重者，任这种失衡的情绪繁衍、泛滥，可能会对他人、对社会产生无名的敌意，冲动之下还可能做出不理智的事，危害他人，也害自己。所以，我要奉劝这些人：喊“我怎么这么倒霉呢”一定要适可而止，该刹车时必须刹车。</p>
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