职场中应提防的6类同事及应对之策[1]
<p><span word="An">An</span> <span word="executive">executive</span> <span word="coach">coach</span> <span word="identifies">identifies</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="causes">causes</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="troublesome">troublesome</span> <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span>’ <span word="behavior">behavior</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="respond">respond</span>.</p><p>一位高管培训师研究出一些同事惹人心烦的行为动机，并教给我们最佳应对方法。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="Moles">Moles</span></p><p>鼹鼠型的同事</p><p><span word="Who">Who</span> <span word="They">They</span> <span word="Are">Are</span>: <span word="Mole">Mole</span> <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span> <span word="hide">hide</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="insecure">insecure</span>, <span word="allowing">allowing</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="overwhelming">overwhelming</span>. <span word="Reluctant">Reluctant</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="quick">quick</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="embarrass">embarrass</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="easily">easily</span> <span word="intimidated">intimidated</span>.</p><p>他们是何许人也：当感觉不安全时，鼹鼠型的同事就会躲藏起来，任由事态恶化。他们胆小如鼠，面对问题时，他们总是陷入迅速尴尬的境地，不情愿处理。</p><p><span word="How">How</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Identify">Identify</span> <span word="Them">Them</span>: <span word="Look">Look</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="socially">socially</span> <span word="inept">inept</span> <span word="types">types</span> <span word="eating">eating</span> <span word="alone">alone</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="cafeteria">cafeteria</span>, <span word="sitting">sitting</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="room">room</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="training">training</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="sneaking">sneaking</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="early">early</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="office">office</span> <span word="parties">parties</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="laid">laid</span>-<span word="back">back</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="passing">passing</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="opportunities">opportunities</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="promotions">promotions</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="languish">languish</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="position">position</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="extend">extend</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="advance">advance</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="appear">appear</span> <span word="easygoing">easygoing</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="accepting">accepting</span> <span word="blame">blame</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="missed">missed</span> <span word="deadline">deadline</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="courage">courage</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="confront">confront</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="offender">offender</span>. <span word="Fearful">Fearful</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="risk">risk</span>, <span word="failure">failure</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="rejection">rejection</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="shun">shun</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="cost">cost</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="moment">moment</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="project">project</span> <span word="requires">requires</span> <span word="communicating">communicating</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="moles">moles</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="flee">flee</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="responsibilities">responsibilities</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="disappear">disappear</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="radar">radar</span>.</p><p>如何判断谁是鼹鼠型的同事：那些不善社交的人。他们通常独自一人在自助餐厅吃饭，培训时坐在教室后排，办公室聚会时早早溜掉。他们看上去对身边的晋升机会并不计较，但他们宁愿在一个工作岗位上颓废消沉一辈子也不愿向上进取。因错过最后期限而被批评时，他们表现出很随和的姿态，但实际上他们缺乏敢于得罪人的勇气。他们害怕风险、失败和被拒绝，因此会不惜一切代价把自己变成“透明人”。当你需要和别人交流你的项目时，鼹鼠型的同事会逃避责任，使你联系不上他。</p>
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