不借助测谎仪 四招辨别说谎者
<p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="suspect">suspect</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="totally">totally</span> <span word="honest">honest</span>, <span word="listen">listen</span> <span word="carefully">carefully</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="how">how</span> - <span word="you">you</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="spot">spot</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="signs">signs</span>. </p><p>如果你怀疑某人并没有完全在说实话，请小心留意其说话内容和方式——你可能会发现以下四种迹象之一。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="suspect">suspect</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="lying">lying</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="something">something</span>, <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="signs">signs</span></p><p><span word="What">What</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="last">last</span> <span word="lie">lie</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="told">told</span>? <span word="If">If</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="answer">answer</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="along">along</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="lines">lines</span> <span word="of">of</span> '<span word="so">so</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="ago">ago</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="remember">remember</span>', <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="fib">fib</span> - <span word="because">because</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="lie">lie</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="to">to</span> 200 <span word="times">times</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="day">day</span>!</p><p>你上一次说了什么谎？如果你的回答是类似“太久啦，我不记得了”，这可能就是个谎言——因为我们每天说谎最多可达200次！</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="shady">shady</span> <span word="Machiavellian">Machiavellian</span> <span word="character">character</span>. <span word="Often">Often</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="lies">lies</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="along">along</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="lines">lines</span> <span word="of">of</span> "<span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="fine">fine</span>" <span word="when">when</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="asks">asks</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span>.</p><p>这并不是说你是个阴暗的不择手段的人物。很多时候我们说的谎是类似有人问你过得怎么样，你回答“挺好的”这种。</p><p><span word="Our">Our</span> <span word="motivation">motivation</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="necessarily">necessarily</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="deceive">deceive</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="cover">cover</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="tracks">tracks</span>. <span word="According">According</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Lifehacker">Lifehacker</span> , <span word="we">we</span> <span word="lie">lie</span> <span word="predominantly">predominantly</span> <span word="because">because</span> "<span word="we">we</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="connect">connect</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span>."</p><p>我们的动机并不一定是欺骗或掩盖自己的行为。根据生活类科技博客“生活骇客” <span word="But">But</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="churning">churning</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="lies">lies</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="too">too</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="innocuous">innocuous</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="impact">impact</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="there">there</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="chance">chance</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="will">will</span>.</p>
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