女性出轨的五大现实理由
<p></p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="say">say</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="cheating">cheating</span>, <span word="just">just</span> <span word="break">break</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="guy">guy</span>, <span word="before">before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="move">move</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="one">one</span>.</p><p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="stereotypes">stereotypes</span> <span word="go">go</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="wandering">wandering</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="urge">urge</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="jump">jump</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="bed">bed</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="multiple">multiple</span> <span word="partners">partners</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="built">built</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="DNA">DNA</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="cheating">cheating</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sexes">sexes</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="created">created</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="equally">equally</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="think">think</span>. (<span word="Cough">Cough</span>, <span word="Kristen">Kristen</span> <span word="Stewart">Stewart</span>, <span word="cough">cough</span>.) <span word="Renee">Renee</span> <span word="Lee">Lee</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="expert">expert</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="masters">masters</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="psychology">psychology</span>, <span word="dishes">dishes</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="five">five</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="cheat">cheat</span>.</p><p>1. <span word="Going">Going</span> <span word="Through">Through</span> <span word="A">A</span> <span word="Transition">Transition</span></p><p>"<span word="If">If</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="graduating">graduating</span>, <span word="turning">turning</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="age">age</span>, <span word="losing">losing</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="parent">parent</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="advancing">advancing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="status">status</span>, <span word="women">women</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="introspective">introspective</span>," <span word="explains">explains</span> <span word="Lee">Lee</span>. "<span word="Even">Even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="wants">wants</span>, <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="engaged">engaged</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="graduating">graduating</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="transition">transition</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="stir">stir</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="array">array</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="discomfort">discomfort</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="trigger">trigger</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="impulsive">impulsive</span> <span word="desire">desire</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="focus">focus</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="diversion">diversion</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="through">through</span>."</p><p>2. <span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="Feeling">Feeling</span> <span word="Adequately">Adequately</span> <span word="Celebrated">Celebrated</span></p><p><span word="We">We</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="here">here</span>: "<span word="May">May</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="promotion">promotion</span>, <span word="organizing">organizing</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fundraiser">fundraiser</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="Thanksgiving">Thanksgiving</span> <span word="dinner">dinner</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="party">party</span> <span word="of">of</span> 20, <span word="men">men</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="misstep">misstep</span> <span word="of">of</span> "<span word="not">not</span> <span word="complimenting">complimenting</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="achievements">achievements</span>," <span word="Lee">Lee</span> <span word="says">says</span>. "<span word="Women">Women</span> <span word="seek">seek</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="connection">connection</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="notices">notices</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="is">is</span> <span word="proud">proud</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="achievements">achievements</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="appreciates">appreciates</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="do">do</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="home">home</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="residual">residual</span> <span word="effects">effects</span> <span word="lead">lead</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="frustration">frustration</span>, <span word="dissatisfaction">dissatisfaction</span>, <span word="depression">depression</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="restlessness">restlessness</span>."</p>
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