20个习惯让你成为幸福的人
<p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="happiest">happiest</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="whenever">whenever</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="walk">walk</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="room">room</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="notice">notice</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="smile">smile</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="away">away</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> 20 <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span>.</p><p>1. <span word="Let">Let</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="go">go</span>.</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="criticizes">criticizes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="says">says</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="not">not</span>-<span word="so">so</span>-<span word="nice">nice</span>, <span word="just">just</span> <span word="forget">forget</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="Worse">Worse</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="uttered">uttered</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="history">history</span>. <span word="Even">Even</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="meant">meant</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="stronger">stronger</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="accepting">accepting</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="knowing">knowing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="capabilities">capabilities</span>.</p><p>2. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="kind">kind</span>.</p><p><span word="People">People</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="insecure">insecure</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="kindness">kindness</span> <span word="returns">returns</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p><p>3. <span word="Think">Think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="challenges">challenges</span>.</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="against">against</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="difficulty">difficulty</span>, <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="event">event</span>, <span word="consider">consider</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="future">future</span> <span word="self">self</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="learned">learned</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="Kanye">Kanye</span> <span word="West">West</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="maybe">maybe</span> <span word="Nietszche">Nietszche</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="said">said</span>, “<span word="What">What</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="kill">kill</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="stronger">stronger</span>.”</p><p>4. <span word="Express">Express</span> <span word="gratitude">gratitude</span>.</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="appreciate">appreciate</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="willing">willing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="future">future</span>. <span word="Saying">Saying</span> <span word="thank">thank</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="manners">manners</span>—<span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="karma">karma</span>.</p><p>5. <span word="Dream">Dream</span> <span word="big">big</span>.</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="happiest">happiest</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="reached">reached</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="highest">highest</span> <span word="level">level</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Maslow">Maslow</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="Hierarchy">Hierarchy</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Needs">Needs</span>—<span word="self">self</span>-<span word="actualization">actualization</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="achieve">achieve</span> <span word="something">something</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="strive">strive</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="attain">attain</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="goal">goal</span>.</p><p>6. <span word="Speak">Speak</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="others">others</span>.</p>
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