为什么被理想学校拒录并非世界末日？
<p><span word="Everyone">Everyone</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="nightmares">nightmares</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="classic">classic</span> <span word="thin">thin</span> <span word="envelope">envelope</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="dread">dread</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="college">college</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="mere">mere</span> <span word="blip">blip</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="radar">radar</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="moment">moment</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="wait">wait</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="school">school</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="dreams">dreams</span>. <span word="No">No</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="spin">spin</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="college">college</span> <span word="rejection">rejection</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="fun">fun</span>.</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="worry">worry</span>, <span word="fellow">fellow</span> <span word="dream">dream</span> <span word="school">school</span> <span word="rejectees">rejectees</span>. <span word="Though">Though</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sting">sting</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="palpable">palpable</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="plenty">plenty</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="initial">initial</span> <span word="rejection">rejection</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>.</p><p>1. <span word="These">These</span> <span word="highly">highly</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="rejected">rejected</span> <span word="too">too</span> -- <span word="and">and</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="today">today</span>.</p><p><span word="Meredith">Meredith</span> <span word="Vieira">Vieira</span>, <span word="Warren">Warren</span> <span word="Buffett">Buffett</span>, <span word="John">John</span> <span word="Kerry">Kerry</span>, <span word="Katie">Katie</span> <span word="Couric">Couric</span>, <span word="Steven">Steven</span> <span word="Spielberg">Spielberg</span>, <span word="Tom">Tom</span> <span word="Brokaw">Brokaw</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Columbia">Columbia</span> <span word="University">University</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="President">President</span> <span word="Lee">Lee</span> <span word="Bollinger">Bollinger</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="rejected">rejected</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="dream">dream</span> <span word="schools">schools</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="turned">turned</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="sparked">sparked</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="eventual">eventual</span> <span word="successes">successes</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="Bollinger">Bollinger</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="no">no</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="rejections">rejections</span> <span word="control">control</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="To">To</span> "<span word="allow">allow</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="assessment">assessment</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="determine">determine</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="assessment">assessment</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="mistake">mistake</span>," <span word="he">he</span> <span word="said">said</span>. "<span word="The">The</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="determination">determination</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="talents">talents</span> <span word="are">are</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="interests">interests</span> <span word="are">are</span>? <span word="That">That</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="you">you</span>."</p><p>2. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="sting">sting</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="prepare">prepare</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="facing">facing</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="unstable">unstable</span> <span word="post">post</span>-<span word="college">college</span> <span word="future">future</span>.</p><p><span word="A">A</span> 2013 <span word="poll">poll</span> <span word="stated">stated</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> 40 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="college">college</span> <span word="graduates">graduates</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="underemployed">underemployed</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="half">half</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="grads">grads</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="market">market</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="recovering">recovering</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="twice">twice</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="college">college</span> <span word="graduates">graduates</span> <span word="working">working</span> <span word="minimum">minimum</span> <span word="wage">wage</span> <span word="jobs">jobs</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="five">five</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="ago">ago</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="rejection">rejection</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="experienced">experienced</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="prepared">prepared</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="turbulent">turbulent</span> <span word="future">future</span>.</p>
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