新书称“奶嘴男”感情关系更健康
<p><span word="They">They</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="ridiculed">ridiculed</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="sissies">sissies</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="feminine">feminine</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="mummy">mummy</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="boy">boy</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span>.</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="book">book</span> <span word="claims">claims</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>-<span word="son">son</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="helps">helps</span> <span word="boys">boys</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="others">others</span>.</p><p><span word="Author">Author</span> <span word="Kate">Kate</span> <span word="Stone">Stone</span> <span word="Lombardi">Lombardi</span> <span word="says">says</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="stereotype">stereotype</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="weak">weak</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="gay">gay</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="true">true</span>.</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="mummy">mummy</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="boys">boys</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> ‘<span word="broader">broader</span> <span word="definition">definition</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="masculinity">masculinity</span>’ <span word="that">that</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="significant">significant</span> <span word="benefit">benefit</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="mental">mental</span> <span word="health">health</span>.</p><p><span word="Mothers">Mothers</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="sons">sons</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="featured">featured</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="countless">countless</span> <span word="films">films</span> <span word="including">including</span> <span word="the">the</span> 1960 <span word="Alfred">Alfred</span> <span word="Hitchcock">Hitchcock</span> <span word="classic">classic</span> ‘<span word="Psycho">Psycho</span>’, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="Norman">Norman</span> <span word="Bates">Bates</span> <span word="becomes">becomes</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="neurotic">neurotic</span> <span word="killer">killer</span>.</p><p><span word="They">They</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="helped">helped</span> <span word="cement">cement</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="idea">idea</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="bringing">bringing</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="child">child</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="damaging">damaging</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="unhealthy">unhealthy</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="parties">parties</span>.</p><p><span word="Miss">Miss</span> <span word="Lombardi">Lombardi</span>, <span word="however">however</span>, <span word="disagreed">disagreed</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="contact">contact</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> 1,100 <span word="mothers">mothers</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="internet">internet</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="explore">explore</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="experiences">experiences</span>.</p><p><span word="The">The</span> 55-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="old">old</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="a">a</span> 23-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="old">old</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="and">and</span> 26-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="old">old</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span>, <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="society">society</span> <span word="fears">fears</span> <span word="a">a</span> ‘<span word="blindly">blindly</span> <span word="adoring">adoring</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>’ <span word="putting">putting</span> <span word="endless">endless</span> <span word="praise">praise</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="son">son</span>.</p><p><span word="She">She</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="widely">widely</span> <span word="accepted">accepted</span> <span word="stereotype">stereotype</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> ‘<span word="any">any</span> <span word="boy">boy</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="mom">mom</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sissy">sissy</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="wimp">wimp</span>, <span word="forever">forever</span> <span word="dependent">dependent</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="healthy">healthy</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>’.</p><p><span word="Miss">Miss</span> <span word="Lombardi">Lombardi</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="lives">lives</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Chappaqua">Chappaqua</span>, <span word="New">New</span> <span word="York">York</span>, <span word="added">added</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="an">an</span> ‘<span word="unspoken">unspoken</span> <span word="fear">fear</span>’ <span word="that">that</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="mother">mother</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="influence">influence</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="gay">gay</span>.</p>
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