失恋有那么痛苦吗？-英语点津
<p>失恋有那么痛苦吗？</p><p><span word="Advice">Advice</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="lovelorn">lovelorn</span>: <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="survive">survive</span></p><p>"<span word="We">We</span> <span word="underestimate">underestimate</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="survive">survive</span> <span word="heartbreak">heartbreak</span>," <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Eli">Eli</span> <span word="Finkel">Finkel</span>, <span word="an">an</span> <span word="assistant">assistant</span> <span word="professor">professor</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="psychology">psychology</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Northwestern">Northwestern</span> <span word="University">University</span>, <span word="whose">whose</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="appears">appears</span> <span word="online">online</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Journal">Journal</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Experimental">Experimental</span> <span word="Social">Social</span> <span word="Psychology">Psychology</span>.</p><p><span word="Finkel">Finkel</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="colleague">colleague</span> <span word="Paul">Paul</span> <span word="Eastwick">Eastwick</span> <span word="studied">studied</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="lovers">lovers</span> -- <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="profess">profess</span> <span word="ardent">ardent</span> <span word="affection">affection</span> -- <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="predictions">predictions</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="devastation">devastation</span> <span word="matched">matched</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="actual">actual</span> <span word="angst">angst</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="lost">lost</span>.</p><p>"<span word="On">On</span> <span word="average">average</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="overestimate">overestimate</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="distressed">distressed</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="breakup">breakup</span>," <span word="Finkel">Finkel</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="telephone">telephone</span> <span word="interview">interview</span>.</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="nine">nine</span>-<span word="month">month</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="involved">involved</span> <span word="college">college</span> <span word="students">students</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="filled">filled</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="questionnaires">questionnaires</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="weeks">weeks</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="gathered">gathered</span> <span word="data">data</span> <span word="from">from</span> 26 <span word="people">people</span> -- 10 <span word="women">women</span> <span word="and">and</span> 16 <span word="men">men</span> -- <span word="who">who</span> <span word="broke">broke</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="partners">partners</span> <span word="during">during</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="study">study</span>.</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="participants">participants</span>' <span word="forecasts">forecasts</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="distress">distress</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="weeks">weeks</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="breakup">breakup</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="compared">compared</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="actual">actual</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="recorded">recorded</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="periods">periods</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="time">time</span>.</p><p><span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="surprisingly">surprisingly</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="love">love</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="harder">harder</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="took">took</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="breakup">breakup</span>.</p><p>"<span word="People">People</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="upset">upset</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="breakup">breakup</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="perceptions">perceptions</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="distraught">distraught</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="dramatically">dramatically</span> <span word="overstated">overstated</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="compared">compared</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="reality">reality</span>," <span word="Finkel">Finkel</span> <span word="said">said</span>.</p><p>"<span word="At">At</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="thought">thought</span>."</p>
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