“谨防”职场友谊！-英语点津
<p>“谨防”职场友谊！</p><p><span word="Best">Best</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="distracting">distracting</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span> - <span word="study">study</span></p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="workplace">workplace</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="major">major</span> <span word="distraction">distraction</span>.</p><p><span word="Respondents">Respondents</span> <span word="cited">cited</span> <span word="excessive">excessive</span> <span word="chatting">chatting</span>, <span word="having">having</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="fun">fun</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="inability">inability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="separate">separate</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="play">play</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="contributing">contributing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="focus">focus</span>.</p><p>"<span word="When">When</span> <span word="faced">faced</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="work">work</span>-<span word="related">related</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="prioritize">prioritize</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="responsibilities">responsibilities</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="organization">organization</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="businesses">businesses</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="concerning">concerning</span>," <span word="said">said</span> <span word="psychologist">psychologist</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Auckland">Auckland</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Technology">Technology</span> <span word="lecturer">lecturer</span>, <span word="Dr">Dr</span> <span word="Rachel">Rachel</span> <span word="Morrison">Morrison</span>.</p><p>"<span word="Workplace">Workplace</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="double">double</span>-<span word="edged">edged</span> <span word="sword">sword</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="benefits">benefits</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friendly">friendly</span> <span word="workplace">workplace</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="positive">positive</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="organizations">organizations</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="aware">aware</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="potential">potential</span> <span word="difficulties">difficulties</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="manage">manage</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span>."</p><p><span word="According">According</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="study">study</span>, <span word="many">many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="concerned">concerned</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="going">going</span> `<span word="softer">softer</span>' <span word="with">with</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="expected">expected</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="treat">treat</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="special">special</span> <span word="privileges">privileges</span>.</p><p>"<span word="People">People</span> <span word="naturally">naturally</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="special">special</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="conflicts">conflicts</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="organizational">organizational</span> <span word="practices">practices</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="norms">norms</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="set">set</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="fairness">fairness</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="equality">equality</span>. <span word="Difficulty">Difficulty</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="managing">managing</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="expectations">expectations</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="create">create</span> <span word="tension">tension</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>."</p><p><span word="Respondents">Respondents</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="experienced">experienced</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="deal">deal</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="aboutsubstandardwork">aboutsubstandardwork</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="basic">basic</span> <span word="rule">rule</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="non">non</span>-<span word="judgemental">judgemental</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="accepting">accepting</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>' <span word="weaknesses">weaknesses</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="critical">critical</span> <span word="performance">performance</span> <span word="feedback">feedback</span> <span word="conflicts">conflicts</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="this">this</span>.</p>
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