上班族父母如何关爱宝宝
<p><span word="Sarah">Sarah</span>, <span word="a">a</span> 36-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="old">old</span> <span word="solicitor">solicitor</span>, <span word="was">was</span> <span word="shocked">shocked</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="three">three</span>-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="old">old</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span> <span word="called">called</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="nanny">nanny</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="during">during</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="night">night</span>. “<span word="You">You</span> <span word="think">think</span>: ‘<span word="My">My</span> <span word="child">child</span> <span word="loves">loves</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="nanny">nanny</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="me">me</span>.’”</p><p>当36岁的律师莎拉(<span word="Sarah">Sarah</span>)夜里听到3岁的女儿喊保姆的名字时，她震惊了。“你心想：‘我的孩子爱保姆胜过爱我。’”</p><p><span word="On">On</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="hand">hand</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="overwhelming">overwhelming</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span> <span word="Sarah">Sarah</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="ill">ill</span> <span word="left">left</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="relieved">relieved</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hand">hand</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="soon">soon</span> <span word="realised">realised</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="caring">caring</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="round">round</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="clock">clock</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="explains">explains</span>: “<span word="I">I</span> <span word="wouldn">wouldn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="looked">looked</span> <span word="forward">forward</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="looked">looked</span> <span word="forward">forward</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="activity">activity</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="involved">involved</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="them">them</span>.”</p><p>但另一方面，女儿生病时莎拉感到的极度焦虑，让她如释重负地交出责任。她很快意识到，自己永远不会喜欢全天候照顾自己的小孩。她解释说：“我不会说我期待回去上班，但我确实期待有什么事能让我离开他们。”</p><p><span word="Sarah">Sarah</span> <span word="hoped">hoped</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="providing">providing</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="affection">affection</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="routine">routine</span>, <span word="her">her</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="suffer">suffer</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="of">of</span> “<span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="matter">matter</span>” <span word="that">that</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="says">says</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="mother">mother</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="instilled">instilled</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="her">her</span>.</p><p>莎拉说，当年她的母亲给她灌输了一种“我不重要”的感觉，她希望通过提供关爱和有规律的日常生活，她的女儿不会受这种感觉的折磨。</p>
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