这十种“有毒”的朋友还是敬而远之吧
<p>“多个朋友多条路”。可是，如果你的朋友“有毒”呢？有研究显示，如果一个人感到疲惫、崩溃或缺乏自信，那可能不是你本身的问题，而可能是因为你的朋友“有毒”。那些用语言或行为给人带来困扰，让人感到灰心丧气甚至感觉生活“了无生趣”的朋友被称为“有毒朋友”。如果身边有以下这十种人，最好还是远离他们吧。</p><p>1. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="focusing">focusing</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="side">side</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="things">things</span></p><p>1. 他们似乎总是关注事情消极的一面</p><p><span word="Friends">Friends</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ups">ups</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="downs">downs</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="lives">lives</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>. <span word="However">However</span>, <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="toxic">toxic</span> <span word="tend">tend</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="seeing">seeing</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="good">good</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="tend">tend</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ignore">ignore</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="ignore">ignore</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="bringing">bringing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mood">mood</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="motivation">motivation</span> <span word="down">down</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="affect">affect</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="negatively">negatively</span>.</p><p>朋友们互相分享生活中的欢乐与波折。然而，“有毒”的朋友总是要谈论糟糕的事情，看不到生活中的闪光点。他们总是忽略生活中的好人好事，这让你也忽略了它们，使你情绪不佳，失去动力。帮他们解决问题很重要，但也要确保这不会给你带来消极影响。</p><p>2. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="listen">listen</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="problems">problems</span></p><p>2. 他们从不倾听你的任何问题</p><p><span word="They">They</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="problem">problem</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="goes">goes</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="nowhere">nowhere</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="help">help</span>. <span word="Friends">Friends</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="lonely">lonely</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="realise">realise</span>.</p>
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