你和另一半是超级亲密还是相互依赖
<p><span word="Signs">Signs</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="codependent">codependent</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span></p><p>这些迹象表明你们相互依赖着</p><p><span word="Sharing">Sharing</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="tight">tight</span> <span word="bond">bond</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="wonderful">wonderful</span> <span word="thing">thing</span>, <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="activities">activities</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="kick">kick</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="page">page</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="terms">terms</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="values">values</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="goals">goals</span>.</p><p>和另一半亲密无间是件好事，尤其是花时间做些让你俩都兴奋不已的事情、而且你们的价值观和目标也都一致。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="closely">closely</span> <span word="connected">connected</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="hurts">hurts</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="run">run</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="called">called</span> <span word="codependency">codependency</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="encapsulated">encapsulated</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="significant">significant</span> <span word="other">other</span>—<span word="dependent">dependent</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="approval">approval</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="esteem">esteem</span> <span word="boost">boost</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="allowing">allowing</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="actions">actions</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="lead">lead</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="influence">influence</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span>.</p><p>但从长远角度来看，太过亲密就会伤害你以及你们的关系。这被称作相互依赖，也就是说你太过依赖另一半了——依赖他们的批准、依赖他们增强你的自尊、总是让他们的情感和行为影响你。</p>
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