The Eye-contact in Communication 交流中的眼神接触
<p><span word="Once">Once</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="talked">talked</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="foreign">foreign</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="staring">staring</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="chose">chose</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="kept">kept</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="distance">distance</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="him">him</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="talked">talked</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="foreign">foreign</span> <span word="teacher">teacher</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="natural">natural</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="during">during</span> <span word="communication">communication</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="meant">meant</span> <span word="respect">respect</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="China">China</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span> <span word="thing">thing</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="eye">eye</span>-<span word="contact">contact</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="eased">eased</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="culture">culture</span> <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span> <span word="creates">creates</span> <span word="distance">distance</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="foreigners">foreigners</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="strange">strange</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="people">people</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="closer">closer</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="clearly">clearly</span>, <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="walk">walk</span> <span word="away">away</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="culture">culture</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>.</p><p>有一次，我跟外国人交谈，他一直盯着我，这让我感到很不舒服，所以我选择了避开他的眼睛，和他保持一定的距离。当我和外教谈到这个问题时，她告诉我，他们在交流时看着对方是很正常的，代表了尊重。而在中国却是相反的，人们试图避免目光接触，因为看着对方会感到不自在。文化的差异有时会产生距离感。外国人总是感到奇怪，在他们看中国人的眼睛或者每次想接近一点以便听得更清楚时，中国人就会走开。所以我们对文化了解得越多，对这个世界也了解越多。</p>
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