如何在工作中应对精神创伤
<p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="Julio">Julio</span> <span word="Harari">Harari</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="suffering">suffering</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="cancer">cancer</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="became">became</span> <span word="upset">upset</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="hair">hair</span> <span word="falling">falling</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="chemotherapy">chemotherapy</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="banker">banker</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="Buenos">Buenos</span> <span word="Aires">Aires</span> <span word="shaved">shaved</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="head">head</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="next">next</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="shorn">shorn</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="hair">hair</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="puzzled">puzzled</span> <span word="reaction">reaction</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span>.</p><p>当胡利奥?阿拉里(<span word="Julio">Julio</span> <span word="Harari">Harari</span>，见文首照片)患了癌症的儿子因化疗脱发而心情沮丧时，这位来自布宜诺斯艾利斯的银行家也剃光了自己的头发。他第二天光头上班的样子让同事们感到困惑。</p><p><span word="Mr">Mr</span> <span word="Harari">Harari</span> <span word="describes">describes</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="experience">experience</span>: “<span word="They">They</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="sick">sick</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="freeze">freeze</span>. <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="results">results</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="next">next</span> <span word="test">test</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="freeze">freeze</span> <span word="again">again</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="son">son</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="freeze">freeze</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="carry">carry</span> <span word="on">on</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="responsibilities">responsibilities</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span>.”</p><p>阿拉里讲述了自己的经历：“他们告诉你，你的儿子病了，你吓呆了。然后你拿到了下一次化验的结果，再次吓呆了。你开始想象没了儿子的生活会变成什么样，你又吓呆了。但你必须坚持下去，家中还有其他成员，还有其他责任。”</p><p><span word="Although">Although</span> <span word="Mr">Mr</span> <span word="Harari">Harari</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="traumatised">traumatised</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="son">son</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="cancer">cancer</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="aside">aside</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="support">support</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="son">son</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="died">died</span> <span word="in">in</span> 2017 <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="age">age</span> <span word="of">of</span> 24.</p><p>虽然阿拉里因儿子患癌受到了创伤，但他在精神上还是能够挺住——剃光头表示对儿子的支持。他的儿子在2017年去世，年仅24岁。</p>
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